My husband crashed our car

My husband doesn’t have job, and he was driving our car and because he was distracted with his phone he rear ended another car. Now we have to pay for everything, the car, pay more monthly and God knows what to pay for the property of the other 2 car involved. I really hate him! I told him sooo many times that he shouldn’t be checking his phone (Facebook, YouTube, while driving) he answer that it’s the same as changing the dial of the car station. He replies too that if I don’t like the way he drives I can drive instead. I do drive, but I think he should be more careful, I’m always worried that something might happen we my kids are in the car. Now we only have one car, no money; debt, and having to pay for more things

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Make him get a job?

I can’t make him get a job! I talked, cried, yelled, nothing he doesn’t understand

I’m sorry you are having to go thru that. If he isn’t contributing to ANYTHING I would leave. You can do better on your own. And it would be less stress on you to worry about proving for another person. Take your babies and get a smaller place. Don’t do for him if he won’t do for you. He’s a grown up, make him take care of himself! Again I’m sorry you have to go thru this, it’s hard but it’s not worth the added stress

First thing is first, I am sorry you are dealing with this. On another note I have been in your shoes and I learned I enabled my exhusband by staying and constantly cleaning up his irresponsible mess. For example he totaled our truck and got an aggravated DUI even though it was a work night and he had to be up super early. Then had the nerve to ask me if he could take my car to see how bad his truck was. I literally had 2 back to back shifts. Regardless, I left him. It was hard but already I knew I could depend on ME. My CHILD could depend on ME. By staying you enable.

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