Partner and not being helpful
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Thank you have tried talk to people and I don’t really have any friends People stopped talking to me once I had my baby
Feel free to send me a message if you’d like someone who somewhat understands! Oh yes, you certainly find who the real friends are when having a baby!
You’re not wrong for feeling that way, being a mum is hard work let alone when you’re running on 0 sleep. But personally my partner works and has never done night feeds as I think it’s unfair when he’s working 12 hours a day. Maybe on a weekend ask your partner to watch your little one so you can get some sleep in x
The resentment is really hard to deal with! I do nights exclusively too but as I’m still BF not a lot he can help with there. At the weekends though we take turns having a lie in. Could that be a good place to start? Knowing at least one day a week when you can recharge a little?
Talk to people, don’t let depression take over! My partner has depression, our son is his biggest mood booster but when he’s low I take over even more than I do, and I do everything already!! I make him talk to me to get things off of his chest & it does help! I’ve always told my partner yo stay in bed an let me sort out boy out because he drives tractors for a living and I don’t want him driving tired, I regretted that choice when baby was waking every couple of hours but now I just get on with it - I talk to my friends and even post on here to get things off of my chest! You’re not a bad parent, at all! You’re a mum! & I’m 100% sure you’re doing everything you can and more to provide a perfect childhood for your daughter!