Just feeling a bit emotional , I think. Any advice would be great please!

I’ve been dealing with this new guy recently and I’ve been iffy about my feelings with him and opening up more because I’ve been enjoying my space and alone time after leaving my baby daddy. I really like this new guy but I was just unsure about going all in but of recently I’ve gotten so attached(don’t really know what changed, could be my pregnancy hormones??) and feel super clingy with my emotions toward him. I can tell he likes me and he’s made it known that he wants me but sometimes I feel like he just disappears and I’m left guessing how he really feels or if that’s just how he deals with his emotions when he might be overwhelmed (from some of our conversations about it, he has expressed sometimes he gets overwhelmed and other life stuff just kinda makes him super focused and he’ll just be in his own zone which means he isn’t on his phone like he would normally be) I don’t have a fear of him fooling around with other females for a few different reasons, I just think I’m in my feelings about not getting the attention I feel that I should be getting for him to call me his baby especially when it comes to him being stressed or overwhelmed. He definitely has proven multiple times that he respects me and my feelings , I just feel so out of the loop when it comes to him and what he’s feeling and it makes me super emotional and idk if I’m overthinking it or just doing too much :/

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Have you tried expressing your feelings? They’re not mind readers. It would be so much easier if they were!

@Deborah Yes I have expressed myself , more than once which he says he understands and he will do better with having that communication with me but this past week I’ve been feeling like an after thought when he tells me what’s going on or he will respond and tell me what’s going only when I send him a sappy message expressing that he’s being distant or quiet with me .

I understand how you feel. I often feel like I’m at the bottom of the totem pole. Sometimes, they try and just aren’t evolved as you are. So then we make a choice to accept them for who they are or find happiness elsewhere by moving on. :(

@Deborah yea at this point I believe I’m gonna have to move on. After the convo we had yesterday he hasn’t text me or called me like he usually would. And I’m tired of sitting by the phone waiting for him to. My heart is heavy because I was getting attached but I think it’s for my best interest to just let it go :(

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