Marraige advice

Salaam ladies. I wanted to ask if anyone here is divorced with very young kids? Im really struggling with making amends with my husband. I have more miserable days with him than I do happiness and it's affecting my spirituality, emotions and mental health. He refuses seeking help from a professional whether that's counselling or via imam or even family. Anyway I don't want to get too into it. I want to know if there's like a way to know if this is really what I should do. I've asked for allahs guidance and istikhara but outside of deen, how do I know this is the right choice when I have 2 kids too. Also how was the experience for you. And how do I go about bringing this up with him in a respectable but final way. P.s I live in UK. Married for 5 years.

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Wsalaam, sorry you're going through this. I thought you might find it useful to talk to a divorce coach, look up "risebeyonddivorce' on Instagram. Very good, Muslim divorce coach, she's a lawyer too. Maybe she can offer you some guidance

@Zeba Thank you I'll give it a look. First time hearing of a divorce coach. What does that do?

No problem, She'll just help you go through the process and understand legal things too if that's what you end up doing x

Walaykum asalaam sorry that you're going through this. Istikhara will help and also separation gives you an insight of how it would be to be divorced for both of you and maybe that might be a wakeup call to make things work. This is something I learnt in class You can also speak to a imam yourself for guidance there is one on instagram that you can contact

@Mera Thank you. That's a good idea and id like to trial it though my husband doesn't seem to cooperate when it comes to things like this. Idk how I csn convince him. In his mind he thinks I'm going through hormonal phases and I'll get over it and says I'm overreacting

I'll defo check out the Instagram page!

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