Should I leave??

Things got physical for the first time he threw me on the floor and left. He has been so mad lately is like he just wakes up mad. I ask him why is he mad and he just starts talking shit to me. So of course I defend myself. I just feel so lost I’m not working and have 2 kids. Really thinking about leaving because I don’t want to be with an angry man and who knows what if next time it’s worse
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Yes. You should. That's not ok under any circumstance and I hope you're ok! Can you leave/what are your options?

I have a friend that says she has a room available and I don’t think he would hold me back from leaving

The first time is pushing to the floor and then it usually gets worse.. I left just last year and it got worse over the years.. I would definitely have a backup plan and start looking for a job asap and go to that safe place you have available

I’d say still leave in silence so things don’t escalate 🙏🏽

Definitely leave to keep you and your children safe, but I'd leave when he's not there just in case he doesn't react how you'd expect. Never tolerate violence.

If your friend definitely has a room then that's great! I don't know much about these situations but the advice to leave when he's not there sounds like a good idea to me, just to avoid further escalation.

Run as far as you can. Put an order on him also and ask for full custody of your kids. Violent men don't deserve a loving family.

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I’m so sorry to hear this, but physical aggression is not ever acceptable!! You need to do all you can to protect yourself and yours babies xx

Please go somewhere safe for you and your kids. Sorry you’re going through this.

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