I feel so alone

Anyone else out there just feels alone when it comes to your mental health or if you hurt physically I’ve been taking care of my 3 month old everyday by my self as my husband ducks around on his phone or goes outside and tells me he is “working” when all he is doing is being on his phone and then when you ask for a simple thing to get done or for baby to be watched for 20 mins so I can get something’s done is always in a minute I’m so aggravated I feel like I’m going to snap I’m getting so angry and I hate to be I’m not normal a angry person

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Honestly in the same boat, ive realized men are useless after the baby comes he did more for me when i was pregnant. I had a break down over the weekend and let him have it and he’s been on it ever since. Sometimes you just gotta let it all out at them lol

Don’t forget your hormones are all out wack right now.Not to dismiss that he could be more helpful.If this is his first time being a father maybe he feels unsure on how to help?Talk about it but warn him too about how you’re feeling emotionally.

You aren’t alone, this is very normal feeling.

Also can concur that this is normal. I have an 8week old and have had multiple repeat conversations about my fiancé and his role with our baby, especially now that I’m a stay at home mom. I recommend talking about it. But also know that what you’re feeling is normal. I’ve found motherhood to be very lonely, especially as a stay at home mama and being the default parent.

Girl I am the same way. Do you have support from family members? What helps me from time to time my mum watches the babies for a day or so and I go and relax. Those days you have to yourself do stuff you want to do not need to do. Get your nails done go shopping whatever makes you happy and at peace and leave your husband at home by himself while you enjoy me time. So when you get your baby back you can be a little more refreshed

No you have the right to feel that why. My and my partner like I have to fight to make things fair . Speak your mind and make boundaries that are healthy.

If you have a good family try to drop the baby off a few hours some family member can’t handle it either

@Diana I don’t the family I do have here is his family and all of them like to tell me I’m doing things wrong all the time and is hard to get out and do stuff when my husband had to get rid of my car when we moved up here because it was not in the best of shape

And I’ve done my best to take boundaries with him and nothing has changed

I believe you’re a woman of faith. Pray about it and bring the situation to God. Let God know how you feel and ask him to help change your husband in ways that will be helpful to you in this season of your life. The Lord Jesus will do it.

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