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Am I doing the right thing by not saying anything?
Hi ! Need an opinion....
My boyfriend plays a live video game and it has that love chat thing. I see him saying dumb guy stuff with the guy players or whatever but I also see him saying stuff to the female players too.
Ex.
"No big tits on the bike"
"Who's this beautiful woman"
"No woman could resist this"
Something, something "I'm yours"
The last one was 100% a joke and seemed like a sarcastic remark..
In a general sense, I don't ever see the females entertaining the comments besides saying "lol" or they just respond very platonically..
In my head I keep saying to myself that it's him just having innocent fun on a video game and that it could be worse BUT when I see him saying stuff like that, it's difficult to not feel bitter about it
I'm not sure how to feel honestly
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I would definitely say something if it bothers you. If your feelings ate important to him then he should have no problem dialing back on those types of interactions even if he doesn’t see it as a big deal himself
@Lauren When I had first mentioned it, he was very embarrassed about it and explained it was "dumb stuff"
@Venencia he had dialed back technically. It went from him "hanging out" with the players at a virtual strip club in the game to the comments
It’s disrespectful. He’s literally flirting.
Well that sounds... immature
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Honestly I feel like you should be able to just be honest with him about your feelings about the situation. His reaction to your honesty will be very telling of the kind of person he is