Cheating

I'm leaning more on u did

You can’t really get involved bc it doesn’t concern you and no good deed is unpunished. Imo But you already did put it out there so I guess that lady has to do with it what she will . But maybe get different friends like you said.❤️‍🩹

Yes you did…it’s one thing if you didn’t know he was married but it’s another when you knew and did it anyway

Don't tell the wife just sit back and watch your friend turn into this man's lover to stepmum and having to sacrifice her weekends to help with the 4 children 😂👍 that will dull the shine

@Susan I see your point, but honestly is was weighing on me and troubling my sleep. I felt like an accomplice. I figured, if it were me, I would want to be told.

I had a friend similar to yours once. She was married but always chasing men she got caught out and as far as I know her husband is happy with someone else. It won't be so easy for this lady with the 4 children. Maybe she already knows and is turning a blind eye

I think you did the right thing! It’s fucked up Hes cheating on his wife with 4 KIDS! wtf What did the woman say when you messaged her?

I would want to know! I can’t believe she would be sleeping with him knowing he was married, I could never! Good on you for telling her🫣

You did the right thing, hell if someone was telling me I would want to know!!! That's insane and bad

I’d want told in a heartbeat . I wouldn’t stay with a cheater . I think u did the right thing

U did the right thing

@Gemini she hasn’t seen it yet, but it’s there. With evidence.

Absolutely nothing to do with you, not for you to get involved with at all. I don’t think you should be saying a thing.

@Jasmine so if you had 4 kids and your husband was cheating … you wouldn’t want to know?

You did the right thing and you should honestly stop being her friend, it’s only a matter of time before she tried to mess with somebody you deal with, they have no shame

Yes tell her for sureeeeeee

I wouldn’t even want to be her friend after that can’t be trusted

And send proof if you got it as well

I personally think you did the right thing. These days, people always seem to have the opinion of “it’s not my problem” or “what’ll happen will happen”, when it simply shouldn’t be that way. There should be honour and pride within honesty, it’s nice to hear some people still have a conscience and morals as it seems to be a rarity these days.

@Jasmine you sound like someone who messes around with married men. Defending a cheater? I would never

Too many people knew about my husband cheating on me with his coworker for months while I was home taking care of our 7-10 month old baby. Nobody told me. Especially because I have been on that side of it, I would absolutely tell a partner they’re being cheated on. You did the right thing.

To consciously know you are sleeping with a married man with four children is a different level of selfish and cruel. I would be SHATTERED if no one told me. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. I would respect the shit out of you for coming forth for someone who knows about me and doesnt care enough to tell me herself. Dont feel anything less than proud you saved that woman and her children. I couldnt imagine i would feel so used and embarrassed knowing others knew about the relationship going on with my husband and no one chose to tell me

You did the right thing! The wife deserves to know so she can decide if she wants to stay with her cheating husband. I would definitely want someone to tell me if I was in a similar situation.