Community Posts, Tips & Support on Pregnancy Loss

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Feeling so guilty

I'm not posting all details of the last 2 days just the accident and result so Far. Lg 18w. Thursday we were at my mom's. I'd just fed my daughter and was burping her on my lap. No wind was coming up so I decided to try on my shoulder. Usually, Violet will sit on my lap in aided for a few seconds leaning against my...

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Spotting

So I had some light pink spotting yesterday evening and after having 3 miscarriages this year already I feared for the worst and my brother and sister in law talked me in to having a private scan as I’m 6 weeks today so went and peanut is measuring 6+1 with a heart beat I burst in to tears as I was so convinced it w...

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First Miscarriage

Just had the confirmation I’m having a miscarriage, 4weeks 5 days…I’m trying to stay positive in that I could’ve been further along, there wasn’t a heartbeat, etc. But I allowed myself to get excited and sit in the joy. Even got my first born a ‘Big Sister’ shirt that’s now on its way. I know she’ll wear it someday ...

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In uterus cmv

Hi everyone. I desperately need advice/ information from other mothers who may have gone through this. I am 26 weeks pregnant and found out that I am positive for CMV. The baby got it and now the infection is attacking her brain. She may not make it or if she does she could be born with an array of multiple conditio...

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Baby loss

I was supposed to be just over 8 weeks went for a scan yesterday and it was an empty sac, hospital confirmed missed miscarriage, is anyone been in the same predicament and how long was it till you miscarried if you went naturally?

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Happy but anxious

Hello, have just joined the group having found out I’m 4 weeks, 5 days (due April 19). However, feeling very anxious as this follows 3 missed miscarriages in the past 12 months, plus I’m in the 40+ age group (conceived naturally). Trying to stay positive but know the odds are stacked against me. If this one sticks, ...

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Subchorionic Hematoma

Hiya 💕 I went for an early scan yesterday due to previous miscarriages and I've been told I'm 6 weeks and I have a Subchorionic Hematoma. I've been put on practically bed rest until 12-14 weeks and have another scan in 3 weeks. I have also been given progesterone pessaries Has anyone else had anything similar as…

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D&C failed, Drugs failed, what next?

Hi ppl, I had a miscarriage anda D&C 4 weeks ago. I was still testing positive at the weeks. A scan showed not all tissue was removed (small amount left). I was given drugs and I’ve had two doses. No bleeding at all so they haven’t worked. Do you know what happens next? TIA x

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Not sure what’s happening : tw

Hi so I found out I’m pregnant a couple of days / a week ago. I’d be between 3-5 weeks The day before I did the first test I had some light bleeding which I thought was my period starting and when it stopped I then tested. I then did a few tests over the next few days which all came up positive. However I’ve been b...

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Definitely no line? TTC after a miscarriage 😢

We’ve been trying for our second baby for about a year now, sadly we had a loss at 9 weeks and now every month I don’t conceive is devastating since the loss. My period is due in 5 days and I’ve done an early detection test today which says accurate results 6 days before… this is definitely stark negative isn’t it? ...

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Pregnant after miscarriage before first period?

So my husband and I lost a pregnancy July 18tg per my ovulation discharge I was ovulating August 1st through the fifth and two days ago I had white creamy discharge and had it again today is their any chance I can be pregnant again already?

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Pregnancy after Miscarriage

I tested positive this morning. First time after a missed miscarriage detected at my 12 week scan. I’m trying to be happy and excited (my husband is), but honestly I’m just petrified of losing another baby. Anyone have any advice for getting through the first trimester and beyond after loss? Prayers that my rainbow ...

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Miscarriage, Ectopic, or too early?

I found out I was pregnant about 2 weeks ago. Last period was 6/28. I’m supposed to be 6 weeks but there is no sac to see yet in my uterus. They’re saying it’s either that i’m not 6 weeks and i’m earlier than i thought or that it’s ectopic. They did check my fallopian tubes and no baby there either. No signs of misc...

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Antiphospholipid results

I've recently been told that I have high cardiolipids and that could be why I've had recurrent early miscarriage. Has anyone else had this or something similar? Did anything help to lead to a successful pregnancy?

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Multiple Miscarriages

Background on me. I had a MC at 15w 3 months ago - found out he had Trisomy. Last night I had a miscarriage & would have been 7 weeks today. Got my blood drawn today & will go back Saturday for another draw. Then will talk to my OB next week about moving forward/next steps. My question is, for those of you who have...

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URGENT ADVICE, WAS I IN THE WRONG?

URGENT advice Advice Im in a verbal, mental and emotionally abusive marriage with my husband. It was like that on and off throught my pregnancy when i was pregnant with twins. Since a little boy, it was his dream to alway have twins, when he met me and things agreed to get serious I ended up pregnant with two babi...

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2 miscarriages

Hi all. I’ve just discovered I’ve had a chemical pregnancy. Back track to June last year where I had a missed miscarriage discovered at 6 weeks. In novemeber 2021 I gave birth to a healthy little one. I’m between 5 and 6 weeks this time when I discovered my chemical from blood loss and early scan. In worried I ...

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Late ovulation

I have read on here that late ovulation leads to a miscarriage. Is this true or just absolute BS?

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Just had a follow up scan and my sub chronic haemorrhage has doubled in size ☹️

Has anyone else had experiences of SCH and a positive outcome ?? 🤞🏻🤞🏻

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positive story after miscarriage

hey guys is anyone able to share a positive pregnancy story after 1 miscarriage. i had a miscarriage october 2023 and i was meant to be 7weeks ( from last period) but found out i had miscarried at 5weeks ( i was 5 weeks post conception) and i found out i was pregnant about 1 and half week ago and im 3weeks ( post c...

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