Community Posts, Tips & Support on Pregnancy Loss

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Crying happy tears

My husband and I suffered a miscarriage in September, I was just 6 weeks when we lost the pregnancy but I never got a 3+ weeks test which should have been my first inclination. Found out I was pregnant again last week and was putting off doing a digital test just in case and today I got my 3+ test result 😭😭😭😭

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Feeling hopeless

I’m 10 months past my miscarriage, 24 months into ttc, and I just feel like I’ve lost all hope. 😔 how do you keep yourselves positive and hold onto hope cause I’m really struggling with everything right now and I don’t know how you proceed.

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Do I wait ?

I had a chemical pregnancy beginning of this month and the month before I miscarried. I know people say to wait for your 1st cycle to come back so you can go off from dates to see how far you are. I’m just worried that if I do fall again it won’t stick. I was thinking of giving my body a break as that probably doesn...

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Trying for No.2 but husband not interested… effort is 1 sided, how do I win him onboard?!?

I’ve explained to my husband I have a window of 2 days to get pregnant. The effort is so one sided, when I ovulate I tell him the days when it comes to doing the deed he’s huffs and makes face of getting intimate (every month) Yes it seems a little boring to have sex on the designated days but God I wish I was youn...

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First Miscarriage

Hi, first ever miscarriage at 36. TTC for 6 years with a UU and PCOS. Never been pregnant. Fell pregnant with IVF 2nd transfer, first one failed. Started bleeding last Sunday 3rd Nov at 6wks, then passed tissue on Saturday 9th after 10hrs of horrendous painful cramps. How long will I be bleeding? This is all new...

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Pregnant with my rainbow after 4 miscarriages 🌈🤍

Hi everyone I’m currently 6+4 weeks pregnant with my rainbow just hoping baby sticks🤞I’ve got my first midwife appointment on Tuesday and my first scan the Tuesday after I’ll be nearly 8 weeks pregnant by then I’ve been TTC for 3 and half years and unfortunately have suffered with 4 miscarriages (2 chemical…

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Getting pregnant after miscarriage

Has anyone gone on to conceive successfully the cycle after a chemical pregnancy? Got a little boy who's just turned 3 - been trying for a second for 3 months and unfortunately it has ended in a chemical pregnancy at 5 weeks. (My first miscarriage) For reference I'm 26

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Has Miscarriage changed me forever?

I had a chemical pregnancy in October last year then a miscarriage in March of this year. It’s not something that’s ever out of my mind but I’ve noticed my patience or tolerance of things is almost 0 and my anger can quickly go from 0-100. I personally don’t think it’s to do with my miscarriage because it’s not ange...

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Possible miscarriage

Hi everyone. I'm in a very difficult situation. Recently after moving to a foreign country, I found out that I was pregnant. Unfortunately the papers took long, so I still don't have medical insurance to be able to see a doctor. One week ago (around 5 weeks pregnant) I have had some strange cramps around my back...

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Pregnancy after ectopic.

Good morning, Hope everyone is doing great. Has anyone had an ectopic pregnancy and had a successful pregnancy afterwards? Please share some stories with me and put my mind at rest please.

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Please please help

I had my bloods done yesterday my hcg level is 9.5 I’m 8dpo I will have to go back to check in 48 hours but I’m in so much mystery could it be retained placenta I had to deliver a baby 5 weeks ago due to miscarriage or another pregnancy please help?

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Sooooo anxious about something going wrong with the pregnancy

Guys I’m so nervous after having 2 back to back miscarriages. I really want it to work out this time. I’m 5 weeks today and don’t really have any symptoms which I know is normal especially as it’s so early still but I’m sooooo nervous and anxious

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Period after miscarriage

Its been 4weeks since my bleeding stopped from my miscarriage 7weeks ago and ive been having light spotting for 3 days including today but its like only when i wipe and only happens once a day maybe twice, its not constant and i go back to my normal discharge after, should i be concerned about this? Or is this norma...

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Missed miscarriage

So I know this sounds like I don’t even know I’m so confused and numb and this is a first for me. So it started with me bleeding a little bit Monday night we rushed to a&e to be told my cervix is closed and bleeding is not heavy I was so relieved with that news they booked me in for a scan Wednesday just in case so ...

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Advice

So I'm 7w 1d ( 7w2d tomorrow ) and I dont feel excited yet because I've had 7 previous miscarriages I've got a scan next week when ill be 7w 5d and I'm super anxious for it because I'm thinking the worse and thinking there's not gonna be anything on the scan anyone got any advice to help me try to relax and calm my...

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Pregnancy test

Probably a silly question... When they say you may not get a negative pregnancy until 2-4 weeks after a miscarriage, does this mean from when the miscarriage started or after it has finished? 🤔

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Pregnancy after miscarriage

I had a medical and then subsequent surgical miscarriage procedure on 7th August. The first month my period was very light only lasting two days, and the next month it was 5 days and heavier. I am now a month late and have done a test with shows positive. Could this be the hormones from before or after new pregnan...

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PP Bleeding after C Section

I had my second C Section on the 13th December 2023. I have between 2-3 periods a month and have done since my daughter was born. I’ve had blood tests which come back everything is fine except I’m now anaemic due to it, I’ve had STI and STD checks done which have came back all negative and I’ve had scans done which ...

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Haematoma

Just had a 10 week scan and haematoma seen between yolk sack and uterus, not near where placenta is. Didn’t have this with first pregnancy and was told quite common and should resolve itself in a few weeks. I’ve not had any bleeding so far just wondering if I should be worried, online it says can increase risk of mi...

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Pregnancy after a miscarriage

So I had a miscarriage at 14 weeks a few months ago and we are now trying again. How is the NHS care different? Like do you get more appointments etc and can you request an earlier scan as I think waiting til 12 weeks would be too stressful. I have a 2 year old and was told at my first midwife appointment in my l...

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