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Households changes overtime

What's your thought on this study?? Are people scared to get married and or have kids because of the cost factor?? What’s the primary reason for the changes in household ?

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Question

So I’ve just resigned from my job via email (with resignation letter attached) bc I’m not returning to work after maternity leave. I’ve got an email back saying “thanks I will get that processed for you”. My question is, what happens now? I’ve given them one months notice even tho in my contract says I need to give ...

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Universal credit

So me and my partner of 9 years have split up and I have a 3 year old and 7 week old our house is mortgaged and I’m only on maternity pay which isn’t enough for the bills I’m i entitled to anything? X

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Maternal care

Anyone else worried about their health and potential life threatening complications in the Texas political climate?? I’m a Texan, but have moved away, and am moving back home to be near family and friends with baby- but I’m honestly concerned about my health care. I’ll be in Dallas

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NJ Disability question

Hi ladies! 40 y.o FTM from NJ and am very confused regarding my temporary disability. I thought after birth, we get 12 weeks from the state? I had my baby on 8/13 via c section but my doctor put the recovery date as 10/18. Does this mean I won’t get paid after 10/18? I’m out on maternity leave until January, and sta...

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Question for SAHM

How many days in a row do you normally stay at home?

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Childcare help

Hey so, I took extended maternity and due back 7th Jan! My little girl is 1 on the 6th December. I’m getting no maternity pay, but applied for universal credit so I am getting that. I’m guessing my UC will probably stop when I go back to work? I’m planning on sending her to a childminder for 2 days a week, when ...

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Maternity leave

Hey May Mummas, how long have you taken maternity? Is anyone taken maternity and now deciding they don’t think they want back to work?

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Stay at home mummies

Does anyone know roughly how much I could claim for being a stay at home mum? I don’t want to go back to work after having my baby. And I’m just wondering if it would be financially do-able. Any help is appreciated at all. Also, can you get any financial help when pregnant (like a maternity pay)?

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Work related exhaustion

Not sure whether I’m looking for advice or just to rant 😅 32+4weeks, have a 2.5 year old, work as a secondary school teacher with a TLR. I roughly get 1 “free” a day and usually spend that hour chasing statements from children around the school for different situations. At the beginning of the term there were more…

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Splitting up PFL

Has anyone split up their paid family leave before and if so, how did you do it? I know we get 8 weeks that need to be taken before your child turns 1 and that you don’t have to take it all at once. I used 4 weeks of PFL before returning to work so I still have 4 weeks left. I am planning to take 2 weeks over the th...

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Mat leave as a carer

I work as a home carer and do a lot of driving for my job and it’s also pretty physical at times with personal care etc. Anyone who did care before, when did you take mat leave? I just don’t know how long I’ll physically be able to work for x

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$$

anyone know any side hustles? for sahms 🥹🫶🏽 besides Doordash >> it’s hard with child in the car to be in and out 😫 TIA!!

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What do to during maternity leave👩🏻‍🍼

Hey ladies, hope you’re all doing well I’m not on maternity leave just yet but just wanted some suggestions on what activities to do with your baby during maternity leave.. I want a routine if possible I will be going on daily walks Any other suggestions? Thank you in advance 🤍

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Savings - what would you do

If you had 20k savings what would you do with it?

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Need new job asap

My job just recently stopped giving hours drastically . One 4 hour shift a week isn’t going to cut it . I don’t qualify for foodstamps for some reason I’ve been fighting with them for months since I found out I was pregnant . Now I have 6 weeks left and I’m worried my husbands income alone isn’t going to be enough f...

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Help! Should I tell my new job I’m pregnant?

I’m 4 months prego with my first child and looking for A new job, should I tell them I’m pregnant ? And when ? Comments …

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Extra 💲

I’m really really trying to be a SAHM but one income is just not it at all 💔I’m a first time mom and feel like I can’t leave my little guy. what are some things yall have tried to bring in some extra cash ? Truth be told I’m trying to get away with doing tiktok but isn’t working the way I would like.

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Remote Jobs

Does anyone have any remote jobs they recommend that are hiring? Preferably not commission based.

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Maintenance money

Just need some advice. Me and my partner are still together, but we live separately at the moment he is the father of my kids. Do you reckon I should be asking for maintenance money?

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