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How long did it take to get a negative after a miscarriage?

It’s been over 2 weeks since I passed the pregnancy but I’m still getting a faint positive.

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Food stamps

So I just moved and I had food stamps in previous state if I cancel my benefits will it effect anything I have left remaining on my card until I receive benefits for new state?

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First FET question 🧸

Hi everyone! So I have my first FET scheduled for tomorrow (Monday the 7th) and I have a wedding on the 12th, which will be 5 days post transfer. Do you think it’s okay to still go? My doctor advised me to return to my normal life on Tuesday, so I’m going to work and try to keep warm. What other tips could you g...

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Have I ovulated?

Does it look like I’ve ovulated? Gutted I don’t think I have!

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Pregnancy test

Can I get help please is this positive

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Hey mamas!

I’ve joined this group because I think I’m pregnant but I’ve not even had a positive pregnancy test! (Yet) I’ve had what looks like implantation bleeding for 3/4 days and now missed my periods for 3 days. All pregnancy tests have been completely negative. For my previous pregnancy I had similar bleeding and only h...

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I’m pregnant after falling pregnant through IVF almost 2 years ago naturally!!

I honestly cannot believe that I have gotten pregnant naturally after being told I’d never conceive this way. I am still in disbelief but I am beyond grateful😭

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Testing

Hi, so 2 days ago I done 2 early detection tests and they were positive. I’m currently 12dpo & I just done a normal test this morning & it was negative - no line at all?😫 could it still be too early for a normal test?

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TTW.. who’s with me!

Promised myself I wouldn’t buy any early detection tests this month as it stresses me out but I’m 3 days into the TTW and already wanting to break the promise 🤣

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October 2025 babies

Got my blood work back!! Found out I’m having another girl, 🥰 and we did some other tests with the blood 😬 my doctor said it was a atypical, not sure what it all means 🥲 My first baby came out normal, and I did do the first test for the chromosomes with her, everything came back great, and for only being about 3…

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3rd transfer.

Am I greedy? Or tempting fate? I’ve got a healthy 20 month old little boy from IVF and a healthy 4 month old little girl from a frozen embryo transfer. Am I being silly for wanting to do it again for a 3rd, am I being greedy just because it worked first time both times that i think it will work first time again. ...

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Faint line?

I had a bleed the day my period was due but haven't bled since, wondering now if it was implantation ? Does this look positive? Will take another test in the morning.

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Anyone take 9+ months to conceive after recurrent losses?

I’m on month 9 TTC after x2 losses last year and I’m so disheartened and fed up! Have had all the usual tests run by fertility clinic and gynae, husbands tests are normal and I have regular cycles with confirmed ovulation with BBT and OPKs so I know we’re timing things correctly. Been doing acupuncture for 6 months...

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Testing

When was the earliest any of you got a positive pregnancy test please

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heyy i need advice !

trying to conceive is soo hard for me right now any tips ?😪

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10dpo

Hi all, month 10 TTC baby 2 and have had 2 losses. Got this result this morning 10dpo. It’s slightly more pink in real life but very faint. I think it’s positive?

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Confused..

These look positive to me but just took a digital test and it said not pregnant. 12dpo today.. thoughts?

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Open adoption uk

Has anyone done the open adoption process inthe uk ? I’m wondering how it works, on a personal level instead of just using google. Are you able to see your child, can the parents decide to not want it to be an open adoption, how often can you see your child Is it hard to give up, did you feel like changing your mi...

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Faint positives and brown spotting

AF due today and since Thursday I’ve been getting faint positives on my tests. Since yesterday I’ve also had brown spotting. I have a feeling it’s not looking good as lines are faint and brown spotting. Anyone have any advice? Thank you xx

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Negative 9dpo

What are my chances of still being pregnant this cycle if I have a very negative test 9dpo? I'm feeling super deflated as this month was the strongest ovulation test I've had since trying, so was quite hopeful of a successful outcome this month. We're coming up 9 months of trying and I'm losing hope.

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