We tried for 6+ months to conceive our 2nd. (The 1st was conceived after 3 attempts.) Once we gave up, we got pregnant. Our kids are 3 years apart and I was not prepared for the bond between them. Absolute best friends and defenders of one another. They fight like crazy but they definitely team up against my husband and I. We love it. The 2nd one is crazy, but they balance each other out. We're older parents and I'm glad that they'll be together after we pass on and that my 1st child doesn't have to grow up without any family.
Look into inito for tracking hormones if you’re really trying. My fiancé and I used that and I used supplements from the book “it starts with the egg” by Rebecca fett. That helped my body get back in tune and after 5 months we conceived our girl.. my ovulation windows were longer than most and to close to my periods and doing these things really helped make that longer and boom we were pregnant. Inito also has a fb group for trying to conceive as well. Also helpful. Had my son at 29 yrs old without trying and my daughter at 35.5 yrs old.
Once you stop trying it’ll defo happen so be prepared 🤣 I think it’s defo nice if ones in some form of education and you get time with the other - I did 2 under ages which was hard and this time I’m looking forward to having just one around to focus on actually looking forward to it I say that now like 🤣 x