I had a private scan, they had a service where you could buy a balloon, football, confetti cannon etc so wouldn't know at all, we did that the first time and the second time, we asked them to write it down and gave it to the cake lady, jusy had to plan it so could have a quick turnaround as I couldn't wait!!
Amazing thanks ladies!! I’ll see where I can get a private can done & sort it that way! ❤️
A private scan will do it, you just book a gender scan and then ask them to not tell you but put the gender in a envelope and then you can give it to the person making your cakes xx