In my husband’s family it’s both normal and the expectation. I’d say alcohol has been available at 99% of children’s birthday parties I’ve been to.
We’ll have it, we don’t see nothing wrong with it. It will be close family and we know no one will get drunk.
We had mimosas and I made a Christmas margarita. Also a designated NA cooler and beer cooler hahah it was awesome! Our was SUPPOSED to be four hours but it turned into an all day thing. No body got drunk, everyone just had a great time ❤️
Me personally it’s something that we always grew up with and around. My daughter’s birthday was on the 3rd and we had beer, wine, and other alcohol but no one got drunk. It really depends on the crowd and how people handle their drinks.