Need advice

Hey I’m going thru some things as well if you need someone to listen and help you figure stuff out from another perspective message me 🙂

I think it's understandable that you're struggling - postpartum is an incredibly hard time, especially the first year. I wouldn't be upset that he's letting off steam by talking to co-workers though. Everyone needs an outlet, and he obviously can't come to you right now because you're having your own issues. I know it's hard, but I would cut him a bit of slack. 🩷

Postpartum is very hard and I feel that some partners just really don’t get it but with that being said, he shouldn’t be throwing you under the bus and instead should try to be supportive. Can you give examples? What is he telling these people? I’m due with my second and day and with my son, post partum was HARD - we were both tired, short fused, you name it but you have to just stick it out and fight through if you both love each other. I once heard someone say, don’t even think about the divorce word until your baby is at least a year old because you’re both still adjusting to a whole new dynamic of life with baby. I hope things get better! ❤️‍🩹

How do you know he’s confiding in these people ? Did you go through his phone ?

I would discuss this with him, the biggest lesson I’ve learnt is keep your relationship private, don’t bad mouth to others. If you argue, keep it between yourselves and work it out. I’m kinda in the same boat. Just had a big argument and my husband stormed off. I’ve upset him, but I’m sitting here thinking well shit, I should just not exist lol

Never tell your personal life to co workers. Like don't put your income at risk...