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Time to rant.

Mums, please tell me im not the only one! This completely fā€™s me off on a whole different level! If youā€™ve planned to meet up with a friend or go round their house and their child is unwell, do you expect them to tell you theyā€™re unwell and maybe itā€™s best to arrange for a different day so that your child doesnā€™t ...

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What do yall think?

Maybe it's just me, or the fact that i am an over protective mama bear and things tend to get on my nerves. Especially when it comes to other people. When i go into public i have noticed many people are drawn to my baby(13m now), go out of their way to come say hi. I havent had people really try to touch her cause i...

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Yall I feel sooooo terrible.

So hi for a bit of backstory I am a single mom who left my bd cuz he was cheating. Itā€™s been a year n a half since I left him n Iā€™ve done copious amounts of therapy cuz the man was a lot. So because of the whole ordeal I refuse to date and honestly just want to have a little fun when Iā€™m able too. So the other day I...

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Does anyone else start to cry when they start expressing themselves during a deep conversation with their SO?

Iā€™m so annoyed at myself šŸ™„ I can never get my point accords fully cause I start crying. Iā€™m such a big baby, but itā€™s like I literally canā€™t help it, the tears just fall and I lose my train of thought so it makes it hard to have those important conversations without me getting emotional, in turn I feel like theā€¦

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PPA

My baby in almost 5 months but I still hav the worst postpartum anxiety when leaving him with anyone. I know he is gonna be safe itā€™s just that Iā€™m not there to take care of him. Anyone feel the same or have any tips

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Anyone with a challenging toddler ?

I know about terrible 2, but I don't think all toddlers are really challenging...I go to group with my daughter quite often and see same children there, but many of them I never saw crying or shouting , having meltdown like my daughter, she has it all the time...and I am so so drained...plus when her dad is off is ...

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Toddler

My 1 year old is currently at the stage where sheā€™s throwing tantrums for no reason. She ā€˜criesā€™ at everything when she doesnā€™t have things go her way, she screams at everything and is throwing everything. Iā€™m pregnant, nearly due and I feel like crying when she does this, my hormones are all over the place which do...

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Any advice or words of encouragement could help.

Hi gals I am just at the end of my rope with my relationship. My partner is not a very vocal person in our relationship or whatever you wanna call it at this point. Often times I tried to have conversations or create conversation to discuss a few things that we might need to work on on our relationship whether itā€™s ...

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Postpartum muscle aches

Anyone else dealing with muscle aches/strain ? šŸ˜­ 2 weeks postpartum and the aches have hit out of nowhere

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Not coping

Had my baby girl at 32+3 on the 15th of feb, but due to having a c-section I got to stay in till the 19th. Sheā€™s doing well, but Iā€™ve got my 3 year old son at home and trying to find time to go to the hospital and sit with her and see her is getting difficult now my partner is back at work. My son can go in the ni...

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Scar pain

11 wks pp, I sometimes get pain randomly to my lower abdo where my scar is, whatā€™s everyone doing to relieve it? Itā€™s not super painful but just uncomfortableā€¦ Heat packs? Panadol? Just ride it out?

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DVT or SVT ?

Has anyone developed either of these after labour? Iā€™m really concerned about my leg and Iā€™ll be going to the drs tomorrow. What were your signs/symptoms? How did they diagnose? Treatment? Yes I know none of yā€™all are drs, just asking for experiences! Tia x

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anxiety

does anyone else have anxiety like 24/7 about your kid? i also have really bad mom guilt too im not sure why itā€™s been harder than it normally is since he turned one. itā€™s so exhausting šŸ˜­

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Sad because my daughter recognizes my mom as her mom

So I am a stay at home mom who ofc takes care of my 1 year old daughter all day long and night and I live with my mom so my daughter calls my mom ā€œ mommy ā€œ it hurts my feelings at bit because I question am I a good mom all the time šŸ˜•, like does she not recognize me as her mom and any time I show her pictures of usā€¦

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Breastfeeding depression

My milk supply has simply dried up and it has broke my heart. All kinds of emotion has hit me at the same time. Hard. I wish my body could support my hungry baby. He does perfect with formula but Iā€™m just sad. Iā€™m back to collecting what little I do have with a syringe.

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Pregnancy after getting tube tied

I want to know how many of yā€™all gotten pregnant after getting your tubes tied. I got mines done almost 7 months ago after having my daughter via C-section Iā€™m not pregnant just want to know the outcome of this.

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Is your baby dad a man h**?

I feel like just realizing that has made me so disgusted

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So hereā€™s this

So I drank when I was pregnant and now Iā€™m getting to the point where I am so absolutely sickened with guilt like Iā€™m literally living inside of a box and I feel like Iā€™m gonna throw up all the time now and Iā€™m so exhausted I do things with my son playing talking etc but I feel like one day heā€™s going to hate me and...

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donā€™t know what to do

honestly my son is 10 months old and i donā€™t know thereā€™s a lot of things i donā€™t wanna continue with and thatā€™s being with his father but i donā€™t know if i should stay for our son .. iā€™ve tried ever since i found out i was pregnant but Iā€™m just getting emotionally abused atp , i donā€™t think itā€™s worth it feel like ...

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Incision care after 6 weeks

Went for my 6 week check up and was told Iā€™m healing just fine. Can I put anything on my incision to help with the healing process and so it doesnā€™t keloid over?

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