pregnancy laziness

same here girl, i’m feeling lazy as fuck and i work mornings, im still the one who cleans the house majority of the time, the one day my husband was off he complained about how it took him all day to clean and he didn’t even finish and im like dude i do this every day shut the fuck up

I’ve been super lazy 🙋🏾‍♀️ this is the most exhausting pregnancy I’ve had. I stay-at-home with my toddler and for the life of me I can only keep up with the house every few days out of exhaustion or sometimes laziness. In fact, right now, I’m halfway through finishing laundry. It’s almost like I had to teach my Husband on what to do let him watch me then give him the chores to do. Sometimes it’s okay sometimes it’s half-assed. All times I’m a break away from preforming my own vasectomy.

@Angelina it drives me crazy 😭😐 my son is 3, so i've been a stay at home mom most of his life so everyone is used to meeeee cleaning but im afraid if im not the one who cleans it won't get done right. bc so far that is how it has gone. it's exhausting asf it generally makes me want to leave him and go be on my own😂😂 i can handle my kids mess and im pretty clean and when im not i give myself some type of time limit. so us 3 will be no issue. another thing is my bf just disgusts me this pregnancy. and his mess doesn't help fr

SAME! i’m almost 15 weeks with our first baby and my husband made me get a job even though he’s in the military so he should be making plenty but he’s always complaining about money, we both work now but i’m still the one taking care of the house even though i’m pregnant like shouldn’t he be doing it? like if you let me stay home i wouldn’t have an issue doing majority of the work but i clean up after him and his friends constantly and after being on my feet all day it’s just so exhausting. He also is trying to make me go back to work after the baby like i will literally fight him to the end on this

@Dayiana same!!!! i was a stay at home mom the past 3 years i just recently started working. so he is used to me being the one to normally take on cleaning tasks and whatever but now that im working he has to cook 🤢🤮 and i just can't w his food. but also he doesn't clean his dishes. so i am stuck w them and im not doing it, i leave it thee lol. it's building a big ass resentment for me tho idk if it's hormones or what but i'm honestly ready to leave him for it. lol i sound like the biggest fucking hater but i'm tired

@Angelina aww i'm 15w1d today! 🫶🏼and yeah ur valid as fuuuuck. men don't understand. they're naturally selfish as fuck. 😭 i'm praying for you! if it ever helps you, i worked 2 days a week at my job during the early months of postpartum, and that helped me a lot in regards to postpartum depression and i ended up quitting and staying home full time but you will find what works for u so worst comes to worst just work 2 days 😂 ur working u can at least pay ur phone bill or something and u also get a vacation from the house. just sharing that tho i was the same way thankfully my bd wanted me to be at home, but if he didn't i would have raised hell for it 😂

see like i I don’t understand why my husband is so obsessed with money like he’s in the military. He’s already going to be gone a lot so there needs to be one present parent so that should be me and he should be making enough money for me to stay home, but he’s constantly saying he doesn’t. I’m starting to think he’s lying about his finances just to get me to do shit because everyone’s been questioning me about it saying that he should be making enough money and that I should check his bank account when he’s not looking because I have a feeling he’s lying too and that he’s making enough money. And these next couple years we’re going to be moving around a lot so I don’t wanna have to keep getting jobs and quitting. I just want to be home with my baby and he thinks I’m just lazy as fuck for that like Mom‘s do a lot he thinks I’ll just be sitting there watching TV all day and he thinks pregnancy should be a breeze and constantly compares me to other pregnant women

@Angelina he should. It’s hard being the default parent while also working full time. It’s part of the reason I choose to only work part time or just stay home. It feels like 2 full time jobs when I work full time and I get burnt out.

I am 15 weeks, and I am just always tired. I could drink 5 cups of coffee and I’d still be tired. I can’t really take a nap my kids don’t nap anymore. By the time it’s bedtime for them, mom’s also ready for bed as well. I am in the second trimester too but the exhaustion hasn’t gone away.

My husband is the same! I would work and get home and things looked horrible. He is a firefighter so he works 24 hours and is off for 48. It’s just a lot when you are pregnant and dying to get stuff done and so you need help but even the help isn’t good. Pregnant girl issues 🙄

@Angelina valid asf!!!!!! stand ur ground. ur baby needs you especially those early years.

@Lucy Sundin ur not alone😭😭😭😞 cheers to it being bed time lol.

today i expressed my stress to my bf and he finalllllly cleaned up so i am satisfied amen bc i was on my way to or already hit an extreme burn out. sending love and energy to u guys ik it's fucking exhausting growing a baby and raising kids in general.

I feel this so much. I work from home which is a blessing and a curse. I haven’t gotten anything done since October.

@Brianna i'm also 15 weeks🫶🏼 sending u love ur not alone

I feel the same way. This is my first child but i havent been able to go back to work due to the sickness and fatigue. But with that i dont clean as much and my bf seems to hate it but really try sometimes because i dont want him feeling frustrated with a blanket not folded or a few dishes in the sink or just some small things that might pile up but we also have a dog that i tend to alot and its overall frustrating for me but i feel bad and i dont know why.