So sad

Same, I constantly have to tell my husband I don’t feel like me. It’s like I’m not present in my body, just moving through the motions

Why do you feel like that?

Same. It's hard to be yourself when you're always looking after other people first

I 100% agree. I miss being able to just focus on myself. Between being a caregiver for my mom and being a single parent, I don’t even know what I want out of life anymore. I don’t know what I like to do nor can I afford to do anything. It’s like a constant sadness I can’t wake up from and I can’t even get any real time to myself without someone wanting something from me

Do you want to learn anything? Is there something you wished you can do, or get better at? Is there anyone out there that can do something well and you have a pang of envy? Turn that envy into inspiration. For me it was girls who were great at skincare, makeup, hair. So I watched a bunch of tutorials and started to cut, dye my own hair, perfect my makeup (still learning eyeliner) learn my body type and colors that suit my skin tone and dress better. Then nails, I bought a huge set from Aliexpress and started doing my own from home, I find it therapeutic to do my nails. And then it clicked to me that I’ve always wanted to learn salsa then i came across free salsa lessons 20mins away and I just told hubby, this Friday Ima try this free salsa lesson if I like it I want to continue and he just said “okay”. That was 3yrs ago. I’m now just gone up a level to 2.5 in salsa and so damn proud of myself. Another 3m of L2.5 and 6m of L3, then 6m of L3.5 and that’s the very last level for me.

@Jasmine yea I feel that to a T. It's so hard

@Kellie can I msg you seeetie

Oh I just saw your comment yeah sure msg me