Feeling like a failure and burntout 😢😭

I feel so down and depressed at the moment. I feel so unhappy in my skin, I have put on so much weight and just feel so uncomfortable in everything I wear. I feel like I’ve completely lost who I am, I don’t do anything for me anymore and quite frankly I have no interest or motivation to. I feel like a terrible Mum I feel like I don’t get out the house enough with my son, he’s behaviour is challenging at the moment and I just feel like it’s all my fault, I feel like I’m failing him. I’ve got some health things going on and suffer with health anxiety so that’s really effecting me. I don’t know what the point of this post is. I guess to see if anyone feels or has felt like this. I just feel like I’m on the verge of having a breakdown😭😭😭 I’m so burnt and worn out😢

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Hey mama, you are not alone 💖

I’m sure you’re an amazing mum to your son, you are his world! I can definitely relate to some of the things you feel, you are not alone!! ❤️

This is was me a couple of months back, I’m not yet fully recovered but I’m better. Listen mama you have to choose yourself first. I know being a mum might seem like an endless tunnel of being constantly needed by someone or people who are helpless; coupled with being BAME wife but pick you first. I always say it, give your baby to your partner or a family member who’s willing, if you can afford childcare take them to nursery/childminder. Go out by yourself/friends regain your sanity by doing what you used to enjoy. If you’re unhappy with your weight I was exactly the same putting 10kg since childbirth mama I used a natural cheap ‘ozempic’ (I can help with that if you’re interested). But if you can do 16/18 hour fast everyday you’re good to lose weight trust me. Get a chemical peel or microneedling to see astonishing results for your skin. Get your VitD up cos the weather be making us depressed. Don’t make being a mother your first identity you will lose yourself doing that. Xx

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