sex after birth

so i’m an absolute sex fiend. and everyone keeps saying after giving birth i won’t feel up to it, but i have never not felt up to it. i know you can’t have sex right after labour, but how soon can you? and is there anything you CAN do in the meantime
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They don't want you having sex for 6 weeks after. Due to the risk of infection. I pleased my clit to get me by but anal is on the table if that is your sort of thing. There was a period of time I didn't have the want or desire for any sex to be touched. but for me it was a hormonal imbalance and stress. Everyone is different. But there is a chance for a period of time you may lose the desire and there is a chance during periods of time you are going to be on extra overdrive wanting it.

I didn't have sex until 5 weeks. I was so sore I didn't touch myself until around that time. I did do anal with my husband though before the 5 weeks.

@Star if clit stimulation is okay, would it be okay for my partner to go down on me?

If he's okay with going down on you. Ultimately about nothing going inside 😿 so she doesn't get an infection. You follow that rule all else is possible. He doesn't mind blood and can stay right there on the clit!!!! Then absolutely!!!! Baby please do your thing ..... 🤣🤣🤣

Good lord..!!

When i had my son 18 months ago the nurses on the ward was telling me stories and 1 of em told me how she walked in on this women and her husband having sex only hours after having a baby I personally couldn’t though tbh

You do you, but remember after giving birth you have a wound in your uterus the size of a dinner plate from the placenta. You need to give your body time to heal.

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