Not sure how to cope
My boyfriend of 4 years has left me 2 days ago. We’ve had a lot of relationships problems for a very long time and when we do argue he’s always quick to leave. I battle with my mental health issues and feel things very deeply so it always hurts me more and I’m not able to handle my emotions very well. Within these 2 days, he has called me multiple times and made threats which he always has but this time feels worse than ever. I’m struggling mentally to be strong for our baby but I know I have to be. One minute he’s calm and the next he lashes out because I won’t give him what he wants. I’m not blaming him for everything we have gone through because I know I have my faults too but I have no one to turn to while he has multiple friends and family to have his back and be there for him. I feel completely alone and I just wish I could be happy again. I wish we never got into that argument.
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@Thel🇹🇹🇬🇧 thank you. I think he’s going to take me to court regarding her so I don’t think he is trying to leave her but I just feel so abandoned and like I’ve been pulling the weight of our relationship so him leaving has left me feeling empty
That’s why you have to put yourself together to prove you have capacity. Becareful what you send to him. Stop being vulnerable show strength instead
@Thel🇹🇹🇬🇧 I’ve been doing the best I can. I haven’t spoken to him unless he calls me and I haven’t told him that I want him back like I usually do. Thank you for the advice
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Sweet it’s gonna hurt but let that baby give you strength. No man is worth dying for you. If he can easily abandon an innocent child he is not worthy. It may seem hard but you are better off without him. You are worthy and deserving and after healing you will meet someone who will respect you and love you and your baby. Let him go