Dont have advice just solidarity and a big hug . My little ones havent started yet but I'm dreading when the day that comes. Itaking the first day off seems like a great idea to settle in to the routine
Find a close friend instead of a large daycare
My little one has been in daycare since he was four months old, and I have a handy tip for the first day! Try to keep it short, just a couple of hours, and make sure you're not working that day. This way, both you and your baby can get accustomed to the new routine. Also, a heads up: it's pretty common for both of you to catch a little bug at first, so just be prepared for that. I really wish someone had mentioned it to me!