Support worker

My health visitor has referred me to a support worker to help with my baby’s sleep. She barely sleeps at all and uses me as a pacifier. Has anyone got any experience of this? It’s an NHS service although I’ve never heard of it before. I’m worried asking for help may have made me vulnerable to be referred to social services
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I know some people are against it my girl was/ is still like this I started co sleeping at first she has a dummy then around 2-4am I dream feed her it’s taken time but she’s finally getting better at sleeping at night x

I was recommended to use social services by my council's therapy scheme. They assured me that there are two branches of social services - the one where they come to help you with the baby at home like at night so you can get some sleep - and the ones where it's welfare checks. They assured me they are two separate departments and that asking for help wouldn't reflect badly on me as a mother. In the end due to a major f up, the referral to social services never actually went through and by the time it was raised to me thankfully my baby was sleeping better so I said I didn't need it anymore (6+ months later!!!) So I can't help exactly as I never used them in the end, but I wish they could have, honestly if they are offering the help I would take it

Most health visitor services also have support workers. My local one I see support workers much more than a health visitor even for some development reviews. I wouldn’t worry at all if anything they’ll be impressed you’ve asked for help!

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