Yall I feel sooooo terrible.

So hi for a bit of backstory I am a single mom who left my bd cuz he was cheating. It’s been a year n a half since I left him n I’ve done copious amounts of therapy cuz the man was a lot. So because of the whole ordeal I refuse to date and honestly just want to have a little fun when I’m able too. So the other day I went to go have fun and afterwards I asked to use this man’s bathroom and I nearly CRIED when I saw what was in there. There were pads, the cooling pads they give you after you give birth, like all the essentials of a “I just gave birth to a child”. And I was like hold up. So of course I go outta my way to find out who the woman is cuz I felt terrible and needed to let her know. Cuz it’s fucked up that a father is gonna do this to his child’s mother behind her back. So far I haven’t gotten a response back from her but like she’s gotta know and I just want to make sure she does cuz no one deserves to go through this. Especially cuz I went through something similar with my child’s father… what do I do???

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girl she gonna find out one way or another like we all did. if she responds back to you then ofc, but that whole “woman to woman” thing makes it so much worse than her finding out on her own imo

I’ve been through that and while I was pregnant. A woman came woman to woman to me and I am so grateful for her bc I then found out about the other women and how he had an std. all while I was pregnant. Tell her please man.

@Queen I told her it’s just she hasn’t seen/responded to me yet

Noooo 😭 that would break my heart so much if I found out my partner was doing that after I had his baby. I’m sorry you’re involved in this and I hope she thanks you for letting her know. Please be gentle with her even if she’s bitchy this is something so horrible to find out but thank you for letting her know and being brave enough to do it

Let’s hope for her safety if she confronts him. Maybe check in to see if she is still safe and not push for anything else. If she knows it’s up to her to do with the info and you checking in may open the door for her to speak

@Tiana no no no. Women deserve to know. Don't be an accomplice to "keep the peace" and "mind your own business" that mindset is how bad things keep happening all the time and nothing gets it to stop. Men need to be called out to their significant others when they cheat and the new girl finds out he has someone. Tf?! Why should he keep being allowed to do this. She isn't the only one and you know how dangerous it is to risk an std to a pregnant woman or post partum mom?! Especially if she breastfeeding!! Why do you women always have this stupid ass mindset i swear to god 🙄🙄🙄

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