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Feel scolded for venting, people need to ‘defend’ my child

Curious is others are experiencing this. When someone asks me how we are and I tell the truth that this age is really challenging due to them being into everything and dealing with tantrums, they always feel the need to basically disagree with me and say ‘no shes a great girl’ ‘oh shes so good’ ‘shes an angel’ like yes I know shes great lollll shes my child?? Its as if you cant say an age is hard without someone thinking you’re saying your child is bad? Its gotten worse for me in recent months I find this so so strange, I would never dream of reacting like this if my friend or family was venting I would just say omg yeah that sounds so hard or oh yes I remember that phase being tough…. Why are people so annoying 😂

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I feel I can be brutally honest with my mum friends. Everybody else when I'm honest also downplays also

Always get this from my grandad! When i say how hard she is atm so we have had a bad day cos she's being good when we see him he's like oh I don't believe that blah blah and it infuriates me!

It’s always grandma and other in-laws that do this and I’m like…. Yes great she’s an amazing child and I love her but doesn’t change the fact that there are times when I wanna hit my head against a wall 😂😂 Also have u guys noticed that your child will actually listen to other people but not you… I went out with a couple of moms the other day and my child ate brilliantly when they put the food out for her as we were out I was ordering at the till. I came back to no fussing and eating but if I did that she would have thrown it at my face 😓🤦🏽‍♀️

You guys get it!!!! And @Krupha yes for sure, and no throwing food or throwing water cup but always for meeee 🤡

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