Hey momma, it doesn't hurt to ask for help! Reach out to your doctor, and talk to your husband. ❤️
In addition to talking to your GP and husband, when you're having a bad moment, please call a hotline. They may be able to help you manage those thoughts in the moment, and keep you from doing something awful.
Tell your husband how you are feeling. I know you don't want to stress him, but that's what a partner is for, to help carry heavy burdens. Also, please do reach out to your doc. Wait times are awful, but they aren't going to get any shorter. And there are resources out there, online and inperson groups for support.
Feel free to message me I was the exact same speak to your gp also get some support you’ve got this Mumma always here for a chat
I am in a similar situation, but honestly talking about it will lighten your load like you wouldn't believe. I am currently seeing 2 psychs and would be lost without them. Yes, waiting times between sessions can be difficult, but I find listening to podcasts episodes and reading books in the interim helpful (particularly those relevant to what you're going through). Don't feel bad to stress your partner out...it is his job to emotionally support you, stressful business or not. Not adequately communicating will only make your relationship deteriorate more, and your feelings of resentment grow.
Please speak to your GP xx