Sounds like your women’s intuition is kicking you
It’s very important to my spouse and I. We have been together going on 3 years. Although we work full time and have kids, we find the time to have sex. We try to at least every other day. I think I would only lose interest if I weren’t into my spouse anymore or he was doing something to jeopardize the relationship.
How so not the same? It’s only as important as it is to you and your partner. There’s no exact answer. I personally have my sex life as a dealbreaker. It’s definitely something to have a conversation about and see how they are feeling and if they feel like their needs are being met.