Is anyone having the same problem??

The past few weeks, my little one has been having theses bad temper tantrums. Anything from not getting her way or if you take something from her she shouldn’t have. Everything is “mine” “mine” “mine. I don’t know where she got that from. I just can’t do anything with her, from changing her, washing her or even just for her to calm down & listen. I’m trying my best but also, the fact I still live with my mum, she has become clingy with her & once she comes in the morning she will run to her & forget I’m even there. Kicking, screaming & throwing herself on the floor. I don’t know what to do at this point? Plus, I’m pregnant with baby no2.
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We’re starting I go through this the past few weeks. It’s not necessarily mine mine mine but it’s just crying for no reason and being so darn sensitive when being told no or taking something from her and even not listening. Telling her over and over not to do something then having a tantrum when she gets told off after 3 pre warnings etc xx

My son is the same at the minute, won’t even leave me alone for a second. His basically joined at the hip and a nightmare to get to sleep

@Charlie yes it’s basically that. And she’s not even 2 yet. Will be 2 next month. I just don’t know how to control her & when my mother is around, it just makes the situation worse by just not allowing me to figure it out. Even does this out as well. 🙄😕 xo

Unfortunately it’s the age my little Boy is 2 next month and he’s attitude is getting bad last couple weeks. He’s doing everything he’s not meant to. He gets angry if it don’t go he’s way but it’s all normal don’t you worry. Your doing your best mama x

And nanny situation is the same when my mum comes over he always goes to her but it’s normal. Nanny always gives everything of course

Oh gosh, yes! How long is this phase??? Glad I'm not alone x

@Kathryn yes definitely. Bedtime is getting bad too. 🙄 xo

@Magda tell me about it. And I get it but, it doesn’t help us after, because we then have to deal with it after. Like grandma is nice she gives me anything and everything, they then become spoiled because of it. xo

@Sophia I’m not sure but I head 3s are worse. xo

@Lorraine yes I totally agree but you can’t stop a grandma from spoiling the grandchild it’s not easy haha they don’t listen x

@Magda I get that but in my situation it is abit different. Because she over does it and it’s more to the point, I’m not allowed to even do anything with her. (I have learning difficulties) my mother is in care of her but to me too… so. x

Hi, I think I have it easier in some way because my son has always been like this, very hot tempered from birth so i didnt know it any other way and got used to it. I was struggling so bad and a few months ago I started slowly accepting it. Of course he can't have everything his own way but I often let him and started seeing it as something admirable as this is a sign of very strong character, I just need to guide him well and it's a heall of a work..very hard still!

Oh my goodness someone else whose child clings to the grandmother! As lovely as the bond is it’s frustrating isn’t it because you’re literally there and they don’t want you and then you feel bad for your parent… My little girl sorta went through a stage where she’d have bad temper tantrums for not getting her own way and you simply can’t do anything other than just leave them to it or sometimes I can get down to her level calmly explain why she can’t do something but then say but we can do this or we can come back to this after you have a nappy change or something like that. I think they just test us to see what they can get away with at this stage. Do you have any pets because my one got a little territorial over a tent I put up for her and didn’t like the cat going in it and so I said that is naughty and poor magic is upset and she gave her a kiss said sorry and then never had anymore problems since with that, sorta got her into sharing her things even if it is with the cat lol

@Lacey yes basically. Mine she doesn’t want to be told & she’s starting to not share, that part I’m having a problem. Definitely is testing us. & non don’t have any pets. I really hope it does get better over time, because I have a second baby coming on the way. 🙂

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