Also what type of car seat? Is the it the travel system type? Or one that can be from birth until they’re older?
Honestly i felt exactly the same and had all the same struggles. An over active 2.5yo and NB baby I hated going out on my own anywhere. Now babies 13 weeks and I love it going out for a few hours AM or PM around toddlers nap and baby is so much more settled now in the bassenet and the car ❤️
It will get easier. Baby carrier life saver in the early days. Like baby bjorn. Even wore it in the house for cooking. When my son was born, I had just turned 3 daughter. But definitely overwhelming. You definitely will get in a routine. Just start with small outings. 🙂
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I think at this age now most of them are little wrigglers! Mine definitely is 🥰 I prefer being out, I find my 3 year old much more manageable. Have you got a harness for baby? Might be helpful. Also my first hated the cary cot part of the pram, at 12 weeks she was strong enough so I moved her into the sitting up one and she much preferred it which made getting out so much easier