Extra sensitive or hormonal??

Am I being silly? So recently I’ve noticed I’m crying easily and things are just upsetting me even it’s not such a “big deal” so for context, I’ve been at my mums since 20 weeks bc I’m on bed rest you could say my sister and me got into a little tiff and mind you it’s happened every time I come here. She was trying to tell me something and I was in the kitchen, the kettle was on (it’s really loud so you literally have to move away) and she had to repeat what she was saying and I still didn’t understand lol plus she talks so quiet. So I said “I don’t know what you’re saying” and she repeated and shouted “CANT YOU HEAR THAT” I said you’re freaking mumbling and it’s so loud so no I can’t hear you. But it just upset me bc why you shouting like I’m pregnant here, she basically wanted to tell me I’ve “burnt” my food when I already know I’ve overcooked it. So I was like I’m not sitting with her (it was breakfast time) and my mum was like it’s okay just stay there and I said no mum she does this every time I come and I was proper balling my eyes out saying “she’s gonna be a great aunt to my kid isn’t she” 🤣 I just watched a movie to distract myself. And then just a little while ago I was texting my husband and I mentioned that we’re having take out today when we open the fast like “we’re having take out todayyy” as you can tell I’m excited. And he says “oh yeah about that there’s something made at home, my mums made two dishes 🥺” so I got annoyed bc I told her a few times to make something small bc we’re having take out and she said she wanted take out too. (I go over twice a week to spend time with them) Hubby said few days ago he’ll get take out so I feel like he should’ve made sure that too much cooking doesn’t happen, I get he’s at work and he’s fasting but it was a simple thing I asked for & HE’S the one that said we’ll get it on Tuesday. My MIL has underlying health conditions and is on an awful lot of medication so her memory isn’t v good so it’s not entirely her fault. I just feel like he should’ve mentioned it sooner bc it’s not like we don’t text at all? So I sat here and cried but it’s not something I’d usually cry over, like it’s okay we can get it another day but it just made me emosh. He said he’ll still get me it I said I’m not having it on my own bc the whole point is to enjoy it together, esp as I don’t see him that much for now!! He was getting annoyed so I dropped the conversation 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m 24 weeks now maybe my patience is just getting thinner and thinner, I’m not even annoyed at my MIL I’m annoyed at him! Pls tell me it’s not just me 🥲🥲
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I've been extra emotional these last couple of weeks, going from sad to happy to angry v quickly and to be honest the source of my anger is usually other people hahaha. Can you have a break from going over if it makes you upset? Maybe if they came to yours it's more of a comfortable setting. Hope you feel more positive soon!

I have been the same last couple weeks crying over pretty much everything the other day I cried over not being able to sign in to my email address 🫣 and then the next day someone said hi to me on the school run an I just wanted to cry 🙄 it's crazy how we go through emotions like this

It's definitely not just you! I've definitely had a lot more angry moments these last few weeks. All the changes to our bodies in pregancy can be a lot at times. So I started looking around for more places to get good advice, tools and techniques to help. So far, the Is It Normal? podcast has been very good - lots of tips and helpful advice. And this is how I found the app too! :)

I’ve had a couple of moments. I got teary trying to pick a cereal bar in Tesco last week. 😆

@Freya I have to go over bc my mums turned her house into a two story apartment thing so we’re all upstairs, my mil is a wheelchair user so it’s not convenient for her atm. & my hubby goes to the mosque for prayers then unwinds or gets on with any chores as I’m not there to take care of the house. 🥺 but it’s just that he SAID Tuesday we’ll get takeout and it didn’t happen so I got sad hahaha but we’ve come to an agreement that we’ll have it on Saturday now as I’ll be there next. Fingers crossed 🤞🏼

@Natasha not being able to sign in to an email is sooo frustrating, esp when it’s been the same for years 🤣

@Magda that’s such a good idea, thank you for that! 💖

@Gemma don’t blame you, it’s a tough decision to make 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

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