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I’m having trouble letting a friend go. But when I got pregnant with my first and now with my second and I’ve told my best friend. She gets so distant with me. Like I don’t hear from her as much and things just start to fall off. It really bothers me because I don’t know why.
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Same. I have 3 friends from college all single no kids and they try but some say things that upset me like I'm gonna miss you after you have this baby...like what? So I get it but my friends do try to see me just not as much. I also live over an hour away now.
I get that. Sad thing is this friend of mine has a one and a half year old. So out of any of my friends I really didn’t expect this from her. Even after she told me how much I was there for her during her pregnancy and after when no one else was for her. So it definitely stings.
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I experienced this too. After my first, my college girl friends never ended up checking in, FaceTiming or even visiting me. They’re all single and no kids so I don’t know if they understand me. In fact, I grew closer to my mom and that’s it. It’s hard.