@Tiana did you do anything specific for him to realize cause he’s like even my dad thinks that’s wrong for you to not let her meet her grandchild he try’s to input other family
I didn’t really do anything specific. We fought a lot during my first pregnancy & he started to realize once I gave birth to our first son that she never asked about me in the hospital and then lied to him that she texted me congratulations and I showed him that she never did. He started noticing her manipulation. I would just keep having conversations with him when I felt disrespected & reminding him that we should always be operating as a team. It got really annoying & exhausting at times, but it eventually worked. He started standing up for me and our decisions. She didn’t like that at all even taking it so far to tell him “he needs to be a man and tell me that he will choose his mother whether I like it or not”… I reminded him that his mother will not be laying down with him at night, taking care of his home, or raising his kids.
Thank you makes me feel theirs hope I would like a good relationship but she has to respect me I appreciate you for taking your time and telling your story hope mines can end like yours and good luck to you both ❤️
I wouldn't let your baby go. Your bf caving and bringing the baby over just shows to his mom that she doesn't have to respect you in order to see her grandchild. I think she shoyldnt be able to see her grand baby unless she can get over whatever issue she has with you and start over. Don't cave. Your bf is rewarding his moms bad behavior, and he's only making it worse by letting yalls baby go before things are mended between you. Tell him that if he wants to take yalls child to see his mom, then you're going as well.
Similar thing happened with me & my MIL. It never got better unfortunately, only worse. She’s been blocked from my phone for almost a year now. At first the same thing happened where she tried to manipulate her son to take her side, but he slowly realized and once he started standing up to her she turned on him too. He doesn’t speak to her anymore either. I hope the situation gets better for you guys.