what do i do?

I’ve just had my second baby and my husband is such a horrible person. Whilst i was in hospital (was there for over a week) he was so loving and caring, saying he missed me and all that bs. Now that im home, in the space of 2 days he’s made me cry my eyes out, argued with me, and constant blaming me for everything even though it’s him, knowing full well i could go in pp depression, he even told me to ‘go back to the hospital’. I’m literally so stuck. I don’t know what to do. I don’t wanna be with him anymore and don’t want him around my babies. He’s a shit dad and he knows it. He doesn’t help me with anything, just cares about cars, games and his phone. I had a c section so im still recovering and im literally doing everything around the house. I don’t want my babies to grow up without a father, but I can’t stand even being around him. He calls me names and shouts at me. What do I do?

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😫 that’s so horrible but it’s great you know you deserve better and want to get out of there. What’s your support network like? Can you stay with a friend or relative and rebuild? Otherwise as he does sound abusive there’s women’s shelters etc, you can talk to your health visitors about it too as you’re still under their care and they can recommend something!

Your kids will see his behaviour towards you and you don’t want them to grow up thinking this is how a relationship should be and this will also impact them even though it’s directed towards you xx You deserve to be happy and that will by consequence benefit your kids by having the happiest version of mum possible xx Your council website should have services for women available for you to access xx

LEAVE. 🤍 and I say that and I know it’s not easy but my gosh you’ve been through the most precious time as a women and if he can’t hold you through that and be a loving partner and father he doesn’t deserve you. It’ll be hard but I promise you’ll look back and be proud of the courage you had. Unless he can really give his head and wobble and sort himself out. Bye for now ✌️ sending you heaps of love and just know you deserve more 🤍✨

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