Since giving birth I feel comfortable in the dark or under the covers when doing the deed with my partner.

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i’ve always been more comfortable in dim lighting but i’m okay with either. hasn’t really changed since giving birth

Depends on the mood

Dim moody lights is always the move

Depends on my mood. I do enjoy dim lights like candles but sometimes if we haven't had solo time togegher in like 2 weeks then I'm down for all the sun on me and lights on 🤣🤷🏾‍♀️

Don’t matter lights on or off but baby please don’t put them covers on me, IM HOT! 😂😂

I’ll turn off the lights mostly but not under the covers. Gets hot under there 😅

I’ve never done it with the lights on 🤷🏼‍♀️😂 I don’t have sex since having my son. I did once at 7 wks because my husband was so whiney and desperate and I didn’t like it

It don’t matter to me.

If our room is dark we'll turn on a lamp lol i wanna see my man & he wants to see me

My husband saw me sliced apart, he can handle seeing my postpartum body in regular light 😂 Also he is very reassuring, he has actually convinced me that he likes the extra weight I’ve had since I had my son, and honestly I’m just choosing to believe him! lol

@Courtney exactly! Any changes to my body are because I carried and birthed his baby, he better (and does!) appreciate that! 😂

I’ve always been a lights on kinda gal I’m tryna see

I've never liked it with the lights on. It feels weird, like the same way watching a movie with the lights on feels 😂

Don't care, my fiance says I'm sexy anyway and I trust him, so that's enough for me

Lamp on. He wants to see me he wants to look at me, he likes seeing my expressions. And I don’t care either way, my previous house I had a big vanity mirror that I glanced in to see but this house I replaced the huge one w a small one so now I don’t have a mirror I can look at. We’re only under the covers if it’s cold and even then halfway through I get hot and sweaty and he ends up standing on the side of the bed anyway so can’t really do that under the covers 💁🏻‍♀️

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My partner sees me fully naked pretty much every single day 🤷🏻‍♀️ Lights on/lights off doesn’t really matter to me

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