I’m really needing help with potty training yall

My 3 year old can pee with zero accidents and can go unprompted. But poop? Nah. We’ve tried rewards, bribes, taking his favorite things away, telling him he needs to help clean up when he has an accident, etc. Nothing. He knows what to do, and he’s voiced it and kept telling us “I’ll try again later” but we all know that he’s just scared to drop it in the pot and refuses to do so. We are just lost. He needs to go toilet trained completely before he goes to school and knowing how long it takes for him in general to do things I feel like even 6 months aint long enough yall 😭 He sees his friends do it, and even his buddy tries to encourage him at daycare but he won’t. No judgement needed here. I just need compassion, encouragement, and advice. What has helped your little boy? What didn’t help? How did you talk to him? How did you take care of yourself so you’re not pulling out your own hair?
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Same story as yours. Pedialax enemas. Use as directed before bedtime or when you usually knows he has to poop. Sit him on the toilet immediately after. Six come in a pack. After the second one my son realized he’d rather WILLINGLY poop in the toilet. Also no more pull-ups. Underpants only. Even if he soils them, make him help clean them. Also this is not some random torture I made up. Read “Jamie Glowackis Pooping Solutions”

Ugh 😩 it’s exhausting, I had the opposite my 2.5 year old finally started actively going potty to poop but never pee, he will just pee himself and not try to make it and then he regressed to not making it to poop. He needs to be potty trained by 3 😵‍💫. I just started following this pediatric physical therapy that helps give tips and advice on insta called tiny.toilets.pottytraining

@DeAngenae You’re the third person who told me about the enemas! His buddy’s mom told me when they were training him, he held his poop in for 4 days and then they had to do the enema. After that one time he went on his own. … did yours fight and scream on the toilet after administering it or was his compliant

@Aileen best wishes to you. It’s so frustrating and exhausting. I’m not all about the regression 😭

I'm struggling too and need him fully trained by September 😭😭😭 he does fantastic when we're out of the house or even the first half of the day but after supper? Doesn't even try anymore 😭🙃 just gives up despite bribery

We let our 3 year old in the bathroom with us while we use it and stick to the reward system. Also for 6 months our boy didn't wear any pants undies diapers or any bottoms at all. Ours had poop anxiety for a while as well. We would let him in the room alone with his potty(always not pants or bottoms) and if I swear one day he ran into my room where I was folding laundry saying "I did it I pooped in the potty!" It is up to him u can't rush it or he will have more anxiety about it. I promise as soon as you surrender to it only happening on his own time when he's ready that's when he will do it.

@Jennifer Ramirez The poop anxiety 😭😭😭 Yes. I may just have to give it a break and surrender for a bit. All week it’s been poop drama. We wanted to help start the transition so that he can use the potty in daycare and not send him wearing pull ups. But he needs to be fully toilet trained by September :/

@Elizabeth GIRL SAME 😭😭😭😭 We’re really struggling over here

My sister suggested Mr Poo goes to Pooland, it's a crazy cartoon on YouTube, I swear my kid watched it twice and pooed on the potty ever since!

@Jai I wish it were that easy! We’ve done all the books and little shows and videos about pooping. Songs too. Cognitively he gets it. But he’s got some major poop anxiety and I feel like we just can’t get to him. Mr Poo goes to Poo land. I’ll look it up!

Ur deadline is the same as ours 😭😵‍💫 till sept also, I gave it a rest so it’s not so much pressure and gonna try the reward system to see if it motivates mine cause I know he understands also that poop and pee goes in potty cause I’ve asked him

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