@Celecia ugh i absolutely relate I was supposed to go away for 24 hours one day trip and im too nervous to go. Partially because i handle nights and bed time my partner doesn’t know how to put the baby down it’s the one thing he struggles with so I can’t imagine leaving the baby on a bad schedule barely sleeping.. its so tough i worry my friends won’t understand why i can’t make certain things because they don’t have kids
@Kellie this is really helpful I’m going to save this chart. I am going to try to start driving myself home as more motivation to stay on good behaviour and commit to shorter hangouts as I was staying out for 5 hours sometimes and felt awful
You can safely drink and breastfeed. As long as you can take care of your baby safely then you are okay. As for the guilt.. it definitely is just a mommy thing lol I usually skip outings with my friends bc I’d rather be home with my baby he’s my bestfriend lol but I know that’s not healthy for me in the long run.. I have a trip coming up in June and he will be 10 months and my family keeps telling me to leave him but my PPA is still an ongoing issue for me and I cannot be 5 days without my baby.. the longest we’ve spent apart is 24 hours. Idc about letting my hair down in another country and “ fully enjoying myself” I’m not going to have fun if the only thing I can think about the whole time is my child.. so I’d rather him be there with me..