He lasts too long in bed

It does not mean the pussy is bad. It could be that he just lasts longer or he could have issues with sensitivity and need that longer period to get off.

@Heather And to top it off he never ejaculates. He says he doesn’t want to have another baby so he pulls out way ahead of time.

Maybe he just has a lot of endurance

Does he use a "death grip" when he masturbates? That can cause some guys to have trouble ejaculating in other ways

Mine is 11 years older than me and definitely does not last that long. I also wouldn't know if it is a good thing tho either

He NEVER ejaculates?

I mean my man also goes long last night went for an hr, but we go slow we’re rather “making love” than “having sex”, (and 50% of that hr is first foreplay, me orgasming and then trying to orgasm again, like 3-4* all up) he edges along the way so if he gets close he’ll slap/tap my ass to stop moving lol he does that a couple times during sex, then he regains himself and we continue. But he def cannot go another round and he always always ejaculates just never inside but somewhere else. So your man just doesn’t ejaculate, at all?! I get he doesn’t wanna get you pregnant, I mean he thinks the same here, but he still does cum in the end.

@Ella We have been together 3 years and has only done it like 2 times outside of me. I think there may be some trauma going on because he is really adamant about not getting me pregnant. We go for a while and he pulls out and doesn’t finish. I would think he would get blue balls or something.

@Kellie Yeah the first man I have been with to not really ejaculate. He keeps saying he is not ready for a baby.

Does he drink?

Maybe he is jerking it too often? Does he go finish himself off after? Why doesn’t he just pull out and do it on your stomach or back or whatever

Have you tried finishing him off with oral and are you putting in work too? Maybe he used to jack off a lot or maybe you dont even know he’s jacking off it’s not like you are with him 24/7 it’s normal for me to jack off so

@Kayla No he smokes though.

@Haley I have told him to do that and he is even scared of that 😭.

I had an ex who was like this. Years later he came out as gay.

@Selena Oh no, don’t tell me that 😭.

Is he circumcised? Loss of feeling is pretty common. Or over stimulated and they come fast. Feel bad for men sometimes cuz it be they own mom setting them up for future intimacy problems

I mean, he could just be having some disfunction and is embarrassed to admit it. I wouldn't think the worst based on this alone.

@Jade yes he is circumcised.

If he doesn't want a baby, pulling out is not recommended as you can still get pregnant so that seems like a stupid reason 🤷‍♀️

He may need a lot of stimulation to come then. A mix of being circumcised, beating his meat too much, idk if he watches porn or not. Also could be mental too. Fear like you said, getting you pregnant.

@Jade I’m sure he probably watches porn when I’m away at work. He works two days and off for 4. I know he said he didn’t have sex for a few years before we met and he would just masturbate.

You're showing off.

Men's privates get accustomed to the women's privates. Side note, they're more likely to climax faster if it's someone new. He might also be "edging," which i suspect my husband does sometimes which annoys me cuz i have a million things to do cuz he won't pitch in with ANY of the housework! And I don't think men get sore the way we get sore.

Porn addiction. My husband went from lasting forever to an average of 5 minutes once we got together and he quit porn