toddler moms

How are you guys managing being pregnant and having a toddler? Currently 24 weeks and I’m struggling. So so tired and I haven’t been able to keep up the past week.
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I’m on the same boat. Especially since my nesting has kicked in and I want to work/clean so much. Just take it day by day. Tv when you really need that rest, I’m trying out new movies he’s never seen n so that really is catching his attention so I can rest.

Seriously just taking it day by day. I nap a lot while my daughter naps; more than I’d like to. Getting outside as much as we can helps too. Getting some sun rejuvenates me and my toddler playing gives me a break, even if it’s for a few minutes. Being outside resets her too from being stir crazy, making it easier to keep up. My house is a mess and I haven’t been keeping up as much as I’d like to, but this season will pass. I’ve learned to not stress as much about it and to focus on taking care of my babies ❤️

I'm not surviving... my toddler hasn't napped since 1 he's 3 now...he gets into every single thing...very independent...attention span is short... He goes to potty sometimes, other times he wants a pull up. He tries to clean himself when he's done #2... he's a mess... and I have no energy (he gave me a cold), especially with the up and down stairs all day long... currently laying down as he has locked me in my room and is downstairs doing God knows what..😔😔😔

@Angie yes, the past couple of days I’ve tried a couple new movies that he’s actually sat through surprisingly! And that definitely has helped. I’ve napped while he sat in between my legs and watched the movie.

@Sabrina yes, I love taking him outside. That definitely helps! He’s a little sick right now and we’re in Alaska so the cold makes it hard right now but I can’t wait until it gets a little warmer!! I think the other part is that we are getting into the very many hours of sunlight and that’s been messing with his sleep schedule a bit too!

@Karess I feel this! I’m getting all the exercise going up and down the stairs a million times a day.

I’m I Just trying to drive her to as many activities as possible (library, gymnastics, music etc) so someone else entertains her :D and we get home it’s already time to eat and sleep. The little time we home she can play for the most part independently because being outside she doesn’t get bored of the toys at home. I’m not worrying too much about cleaning the house..other than obvious things like dishes laundry, vacuum

Im 25 weeks but have been struggling. I am a stay at home mom and are screen free, so entertainment either comes from toys or me. My son seems to have transitioned into a phase of wanting dozens of books read each day , which is kind of helpful. I adore any fully gated play area either outside or indoors. That helps my son get energy out without the frantic rush to chase after him so he doesn't run off. I nap sometimes when my son does and even have been falling asleep when he does if I really feel that exhausted, even if 6 or 7 is his bedtime 😅 getting good meals and snacks and hydration helps too. I feel it on days I haven't satiated my hunger. Sending best wishes and hoping you get more energy soon.

25 weeks and working full-time while my 2-year old goes to daycare. Honestly at this point, I feel like work is more relaxing than being home. SAHMs are rockstar that I just can't keep up with! I'm super privileged to have recently started a bi-weekly maid service and it has saved me, honestly.

I'm 27 weeks and my toddler (4y 4m) is transitioning to the "big girl" stage. It's not too bad when she's in school but I usually have chores to do, errands to run, and/or appointments to go to during that time. But I found that if I keep her occupied with something as soon as I pick her up from school, feed her an "early" dinner, then immediately get her in the bath or shower, she usually just chills until bedtime because she's already used a bunch of energy. It does get complicated if we have evening events to attend during the week. Also, I don't look at it as taking it day by day, but rather just living in the moment. I know I'll get to "restart" this journey with my next daughter, but this is the only journey I get to have with my oldest so I just try to make it as memorable for her as it is for me. (Plus I take a prescribed iron pill 3 times a week which helps keep my energy levels stable).

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