We actually slept separately sometimes in the beginning so at least one person was getting sleep. It worked for us, but we had a second bedroom. Even as an almost 2 year old when she goes through a sleep regression we take turns sleeping separately when the baby ends up sleeping in our bed.
I'd do crib to start so you still have it as an option for naps as well
I would put it together as a crib.
Thank you guys for all the advice!
I have my daughter's crib set up next to me in our room. My husband is a light sleeper so he sleeps in her room as we found it was better if at least one of us was getting a good sleep. If she had a bad night he would be able to take over during the day so I could nap. I'm breastfeeding so there wasn't much he could do anyway. Do what feels right for you both.
No don’t get used to sleeping separately