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@Selena honestly I don’t even know how to bring it up lol we don’t talk much as we used to and am worried that if I tell her she will take it bad or it will just be awkward
Well, if y’all aren’t even close anymore and it’s too awkward, then leave it alone. But if she does it in front of you again and it bothers you, you could just state a fact, like, “Oh you’re vaping.” And see what she says. Maybe she wants to quit.
I’d speak up though because I wouldn’t want to turn passive aggressive because I was too scared to speak my peace.
Could be a cry for help to do it in front of you? Maybe she genuinely has no one else to encourage her to quit. But If she doesn’t take it well she already knows better.
Yeah, if you really want to say something, just be like, "So, do you think you'll quit vaping now that you're pregnant? I heard it's really hard to quit, but if ever there's a time, it might as well be now, right??"
@Selena this what I have written i dont know how else to put “ hey you know I care about you and I wouldn’t be telling you this to judge you or anything bad but I noticed that you were vaping, obviously you know the danger of vaping while pregnant and I know it’s none of my business but I care about you and I care about the baby and I just think this is very dangerous especially for the baby and if you need help am here “
@V you think she was telling me that she was having a hard time with her baby daddy
I really like the way @Evelyn put it.
Could be, I like what you said above ^
@Selena yea me too I will use that, what I wrote was a but too complicated
It’s good to use what you wrote if the conversation develops and she’s receptive. Good luck!
It’s an obvious no and she will know this and has chosen to continue so I don’t see the point in saying anything. If she was my best friend or family member I would but not in this situation.
People have become so ‘la de da’ it’s scary. This is a baby we’re talking about. It’s good you said something but she might get defensive or brush it off la de da.
Just say what’s on your mind.