advice needed please

My little girl is 5 months old and I haven’t left her yet and I’m still not ready to leave her, my ex (emotionally abusive, addicted to drugs - you know the type) is on and on about having her. I won’t be in his presence anymore he has been nothing but disrespectful and horrid to me since she was born. Where do I stand with this? It’s really giving me anxiety. She hasn’t seen him since she was 2 months old so he doesn’t know her either. He isn’t on the birth certificate either. I’m just really starting to worry now.
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Don’t even allow this. He technically has no rights. I’m sure you don’t want your baby alone with an abusive drug addict.

Well he definitely can’t have her on his own as an abusive drug addict that much is clear. I don’t think he has any rights to see her at all and if he tries to appear i’d just call the police, if he tries to get rights judging by his history/lifestyle at most he’d get supervised visits only which seems the only appropriate way he should see her. What are you worrying about, leaving her in general?

I don’t, I’ve said I don’t want to keep his family from her, but I don’t want him anywhere near her

You’re a mum you’ve got the mummy instincts and you know what’s best, always protect your babies, and remember what you say goes about your baby. I personally wouldn’t even leave baby with his family because you never know if they’d have him over too

Everything is just so different online, I spoke to the family hub at my charity on Friday and they said what I’m doing is correct, and they are gonna try find someone who I can speak to for better advice. Just worrying that maybe he’ll manipulate everyone else that he is safe, I just feel like emotional abusive isn’t enough for my feelings and worries to be enough

Not my charity I meant library (stupid phone)

His family won’t see her anymore because they have said if he can’t see her than they can’t either 🥹

That’s their loss, not yours. Shows they were probably going to be weird

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