Why do people love to talk shit about random people they don’t know?
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People feel like their way of doing things is somehow superior to others, and they feel entitled to judge anyone who dares to do it differently. As bad as it sounds, it's a reflection of their own insecurities that they are mirroring onto other people. They're afraid of being judged for their choices so they judge everyone else to distract from their own life decisions. If you look at it from the view of "they're hurting in some way and that's why they lash out" it's easier to ignore it. ❤️
I think when people struggle to find happiness in their own life - whether it be due to abuse, mental health, or simpler things like financial struggles, etc.... that is easier for them to see negative. For some people they don't know how to get out of that cycle. I find it sad that they likely don't know how to be any other way
I see these kinds of people as people who don’t have the skills to actually hold a conversation so that’s their resort.. if you don’t indulge in it they can’t really talk more about people and they’re forced to actually talk about something else
Yeah it bothers me too. Especially when it’s moms judging other moms for thrifting baby items , for using formula instead of breast feeding , what brand bottle or diapers they choose to use , etc. the list goes on and on !