Contact nap only = no sex life

So my 10 week LO only contact naps day and night. We’ve tried different bassinet, swaddle, white noise, rocking, dark room.. literally every single thing you can name but absolutely refuses to be put down! 😫 It’s so bad that we contact nap during naps and thought the night, soon as you put him down… the eyes are wide open! This has caused a strain on our relationship, no more cuddles in bed or sex as it’s baby every second of the day.. even have to take turns using the toilet.. Is this normal? Anyone else experiencing this? Postpartum is so hard and I just want some TLC from my husband, even being held at night but I can’t have it. 💔