Is it wrong?

I want more babies. I’ve not actively stopping it from happening (other than breastfeeding- period hasn’t come back yet). I grew up an only child and hated it- I want my daughter to have 1-2 siblings to grow up with. My husband doesn’t want anymore but knows I’m not on BC and knows it could happen and we have sex a few times a week (depending on time alone). Financially we are making it work right now. I don’t think adding another baby would be that financially straining. I know people who have far more with less than us so it is wrong?
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I'd say if he isn't actively stopping it either he's not really making the effort to not have any more.... xx

Be sure to sit down and talk about it still and make sure you're on the same page before falling pregnant. You both need to actively be on the same page so no issies arise after you fall pregnant

You need to talk to him and explain that if he is serious about no more children then he needs to be using protection.

Also, I've had this before and they are quick to blame you when you fall pregnant as not taking the responsibility. Would he want you you get an abortion if it happened? It's not a great position to be in and like others have said you need to discuss it together before it is a problem xx

Agree with the ladies above. Men don’t ever want to take responsibility and if you do ever get pregnant again, the last thing you want is for your partner to be talking about abortion or him leaving if you don’t get one as he didn’t want anymore kids, and then you end up as a single mum. Far better to have a proper discussion with him so he realises you aren’t actively preventing pregnancy and would welcome it, so he can’t throw it back in your face when the inevitable happens. It’s all well and good whilst he’s hitting it raw, but if he’s serious about not having anymore kids, the onus is on him to use a condom/spermicide etc. or abstain from sex completely.

Just because you don’t have a period doesn’t mean you can’t get pregnant

I think it’s fine. If that’s what you want then awesome

I'm sorry to say but while I get that he's not actively trying to avoid getting you pregnant, if he has made it clear that he does not want any more kids and you do get pregnant, he could turn into a a****** and blame you for it and either demand you get an abortion or want a divorce. Don't get me wrong, he would only have himself to blame more than you if you do get pregnant because he did not want to wear a condom, I'm just saying how this could realistically go.

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