Sex question-just me???
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I had tearing around my clitoris and it took several months (probably 6 or more) for sex to feel good
With my first baby(I had an episiotomy) and the first time sex was very painful/felt like being ripped open etc, then once we used lube it was def much easier! Now THIS time around, we had a TON of foreplay before and it didn’t hurt AT ALL! We didn’t even use lube! So idk if the foreplay was what helped, or it was because I barely needed a tiny stitch this time vs episiotomy the first time, but either way - it was sooooo much better this time! But don’t worry, it went back to feelingnormal the first time too, just took a little longer 😊
Nope I feel that way too! I’m 12 weeks PP and still feel like he’s ripping me apart every time
I didn’t tear at all and still have pain with sex..I’m 13 weeks pp
I also had a 2nd degree tear with stitches. And I'm also 14 weeks. Sex is still painful (but getting better)
All of these comments make me feel so normal! Thanks for being so raw and real 
I didn't tear but I still have pain, we've had sex three times and it gets better each time but is still painful
I think that’s pretty common. I personally took around 16 months for there to be no pain!