Desperate plea for potty training advice

I was hoping to some words of advice about our current potty training situation . Daughter born early December 2022. Almost 2.5. Started potty training 3 weeks ago. I had done a lot of reading on ERIC website and read that you should start before 30 months for bowel and bladder health. I’m also on maternity leave until July with second baby and it’s summer so thought I would give it a try. She didn’t show that many signs of readiness but ERIC website said that’s common and doesn’t mean they aren’t ready. Friends also told me same. Initially she did really well, barely any accidents, all wees and a couple of poos on potty. I thought we had cracked it. After first weekend she started holding her poos big time and was only passing hard boulders in her knickers every few days and complaining of tummy pain. I took her to GP and was given movicol laxative. Gave her this for three days and she started soiling with mushy / runny poo in her knickers multiple times a day. There was A LOT of poo. She now seems to have cleared out but is still only pooing in her knickers. I got sent home from nursery today with 8 pairs of dirty knickers from wee/ poo. She weed in her car seat on way home and then three times before bedtime. She seems to have majorly regressed. Iv tried no knickers. Iv tried stickers and charts, I read to her in potty, have let her watch her fave shows. I sit her on potty after meals. Iv tried bribery with chocolate, nothing seems to have helped. What would you do? Should I give up and try again in a few months? I don’t want to confuse her but equally feel bad for the poor kid just being in dirty knickers constantly!
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Honestly, having done it before, they almost always have little set backs. I found my daughter regressed at playgroup because she was so distracted playing she would miss her toileting cues or just not bother getting up and going to the loo! We had a few dirty pants sent home for sure (the shame you feel!!) We stuck with it though an she got there, but she was closer to 3 by the time she really nailed it. It can take months for sure and every child is different, my other daughter was born on 4th Dec 22 and she is just not ready at all and I've put the potty away for another while because she was just getting upset. Your daughter will get there eventually, keep at it, don't lose heart, don't reach for the nappies again and set yourselves back! 💪🏼

Oh the shame is real! Ridiculous really. I get so nervous on the way to pick her ho wondering how she has done that day and how many changes she will have had!

@Elizabeth I remember those days for sure, I was so anxious waiting for the little bag of poopy pants! 😂 Now I can laugh about it but yes, traumatising!!

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