Husband before kids
Sometimes I hate being married with kids not because of my husband but because I have to meet his needs plus meet the kids needs as well as mine. I feel pulled in so many different directions and it’s taking a toll on my mental health. I have to figure out life handling 3 kids with three different issues and then there’s my husband who is seemingly deprived of his sexual needs. I don’t have the libido produce to hormones and stress and I feel bad he may stray. I work part time as well. He’s a stay at home dad due to Covid complications from years ago. Mentally if it wasn’t for my kids I’d be harming myself because of the stress. I just need to vent. I have no friends.
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He should be more considerate, giving everything you have on your plate. Maybe set some boundaries and have him help you more since he isn’t working. If he were to stray it wouldn’t be your fault. You are doing the best that you can. I’m here if you would like to talk.
Talk to your husband about how things can be divided more equitably. Also, if he were ever to cheat, it has nothing to do with how often you had sex. That would be his own choice. Heck, you’d probably have a higher libido if you felt like he was meeting your needs instead of you going without needs met while meeting everyone else’s.
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Hey I understand I also have 3 toddlers that want different things at the same time and it can be very overwhelming because there is only one of us try to breath through and pray if you have belief that is what gets me through. I won't talk about my relationship life because I have finished there but we still talk and that's good enough for me .