I would leave out the Nazi stuff you heard, stick to the facts of what happened to you, let the mom know, and if he is high all the time around a baby he should be reported to CPS.
@Debby what happened to me occurred about 20 years ago ... I wish I could tell his wife but I learned he apparently has been forewarning her for a while that my siblings and I are all liars. I think in case she ever did hear anything about what he has done. I'm afraid I can't do anything but it sucks cause I'm worried about his child. They even live in my area. I wish I could help her.
I would absolutely let CPS know, I'm sure you can do it anonymously if you're worried about it getting back to you. Best case scenario they look into it and the child is safe and happy and being well looked after but if that's not the case then it would definitely be better that they're made aware of it.
CPS wouldn't take the report, but you could try
@Jessica that's what I'm worried about. And the longer I think about it the more I think this child is just doomed. He's a downright predator though. All I can hope is that she's not left alone with him
If he's using drugs and unstable, it likely will take care of itself
Just an anonymous wellness check from cps couldn't hurt
Im sorry but you HAVE to protect that baby
I would call based on him being high all time(driving?) and caring for his child. Not safe
What Ray said ⬆️
Is he currently registered as a sex offender ? If so I think that’ll be more of a reason CPS would look into it. & asap
@Ellie I want to...I feel truly awful for her but I'm worried I don't have enough evidence.
@Ashleigh no ...I wish.... I was too afraid at the time to press charges or anything.
@Ray can you do it anonymously
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Yes you can choose not to say your name just for privacy and safety concerns
I think I would see if he's doing anything to her. If she has any marks or anything then yes call CPS. I don't think I would just because he did that to you.