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Miscarriage at 7 weeks

Just wanting some advice or reassurance, it was confirmed on Monday that I was having a miscarriage and today I have passed the foetus. I feel broken, confused & empty. I feel awful at the thought of flushing it down the toilet too but also don’t know what else to do. How often did you bleed for after and when did...

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Successful pregnancy with endometriosis?

Hi, Has anyone here conceived naturally with endometriosis, without having surgery? My infertility doctor thinks I might have both endometriosis and adenomyosis. I’ve had three miscarriages and am currently 5 weeks pregnant but have struggled to carry past 6 weeks. I’m on baby aspirin, progesterone, prenatals, and V...

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I lost my baby at 9weeks

I went to my MFM appointment and there they informed me that my baby no longer has a heartbeat and that I have suffered a miscarriage. I am beyond devastated, I feel broken. I wanted my baby so badly.

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HCG levels!!

I started to miscarry about 3 weeks ago and since then my hcg levels have been all over the place? Like they increase only slightly then decrease then increase again, very low numbers tho like ranging from 30 to 50 any advise what’s going on? It’s def not ectopic as I’ve had scans and they can’t see any remaining ti...

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Am I pregnant 😭

Buckle up. I'm hoping someone reads to the end that had a positive experience similar to mine. I have a very short luteal phase (7 to 9 days, typically 8) so when I had my daughter I got a positive AFTER a full period. August 26 I got a positive test at 10 dpo (period was 1 day late) but later that day I got my pe...

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Miscarriage and when to start trying again

I was pregnant, but at about 7 weeks we lost the baby. Yes it was sad and yes I was angry for the fact that my OB did nothing lab wise to help prevent this ( all speculation of course). When would you try again? Immediately? 6 weeks?

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Miscarriage

Hi everyone. Just had a miscarriage last week. Is it safe to start trying again right away? Do I just wait until I stop bleeding?

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Ovulating/period/TTC after miscarriage surgery

I’m going to be having surgery for an incomplete miscarriage that started at 5w6d, hcg still rising very slowly (470 on Friday). I want to get pregnant as soon as possible so wondered if anyone who had the surgery knew how quickly they ovulated and if not then when did you get your period? Also did anyone get pregna...

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Missed miscarriage but no bleeding

Hoping someone can give me some insight as I’m confused! I was 11 weeks pregnant when I had some light spotting. After getting a scan I found out my baby stopped growing at 8w6d and there was no heartbeat. I decided to do the natural way of termination (it has been a week since I found out, so almost 3 weeks sin...

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Pregnant after a miscarriage

After 4 months ttc I got a faint line at 10 dpo and BFP on a digital test a couple of days ago. I've not tested again yet until Monday which is when my period is due. But wow this is already so hard. I had a missed miscarriage in May and very grateful to have a 2 year old. But I feel like I can't be excited until ...

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Is it possible to ovulate 1 week after miscarriage?!

I had surgical management of miscarriage a week ago, I did an ovulation test tonight to see where my levels were and it’s very positive. Could I be ovulating?!

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Miscarriage

I miscarried yesterday afternoon at 8 weeks and 4 days , thinking I was further on than I was , I went for a private scan yesterday afternoon to be told there was no heart beat. I had no symptoms other than a little brown discharge but after my scan and with them pushing down on my cervix caused really bad period li...

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Miscarriage at 5weeks

Last night I went to the ER because I believed I was having a miscarriage. I was/am still bleeding profusely. I am so heartbroken and hysterical. I really wanted this baby. I sat in the ER for 6 hours in my own blood. I was not a priority. I am truly broken 😞

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Medical support after 2 mc’s, stuck in a grey area.

I am worried we won’t receive any support from a GP, as it’s recommended to seek help after a year of trying without conceiving. Although it’s been over a year for us, we have had two ‘successful’ conceptions, which ended with miscarriages at 8 and 12 weeks. (Hardly successful in my eyes 🙄) Furthermore, we also…

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Anxiety

Is anyone else finding it really hard? I’m so anxious and I keep thinking something is wrong and I’m going to lose the baby. I don’t really know who to speak to about it and I don’t know if it’s normal? I had a missed miscarriage last year so I think that is really contributing to how I feel.

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Currently 4 weeks 4 days

Anyone else the same? Super anxious as I miscarried back in march, anyone got any tips to help the anxiety? Or anyone just want to chat to make this less lonely

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Missed miscarriage

Has anyone had a missed miscarriage and needed the medical intervention of the tablets to induce the miscarriage? I suffered a miscarriage over 3 weeks ago and I am still currently bleeding ( lightly) I’m also still still testing positive after 3 weeks ( faint positive line but noticeable ) ! Just wanted to know ...

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Trigger warning no longer pregnant⚠️

Hi all this weekend sadly my pregnancy stopped. I was very early on! I wanted some advice on when I can start again trying or what I can do to help keep the pregnancy successful. Will I be more fertile even tho I was super early with this pregnancy?

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Brown Discharge at 7w

I’ve had two moments this weekend that I’ve noticed brown discharge. I hit 7 weeks on Friday and having experienced a miscarriage in April, I’m feeling a little on edge. Is this normal? I don’t see my OBGYN for the first scan until October 1st so the waiting game has me quite uncomfortable. I’m so scared of miscarry...

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Pregnancy after a loss

I’m sorry if this question is triggering for anyone. I’ve just suffered my first miscarriage on the first pregnancy. It’s a lot to come to terms with but we want to try again straight away (when I’m able). For anyone who’s had the same situation, how long did it take you to fall pregnant again afterwards?

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