Community Posts, Tips & Support on Pregnancy Loss

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Confused

So I was meant to be 8 weeks pregnant but over the weekend I started light spotting which by Monday turned into cramping and heavy bleeding. I knew I was losing the baby. After a scan with the NHS on Tuesday they found a gestational sac and yolk sac but no baby (Iā€™m sure about my dates) so there shouldā€™ve been a b...

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Genetic testing

So after 4 MCs, my recurrent miscarriage clinic has decided to see if I and my husband can have genetic testing. Has anyone had this? What happens? What does it involve, are there any good outcomes? Or is it a case of nothing wrong - so still don't know why you keep MC, or oh dear there is and your unlikely to have ...

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Pregnancy after miscarriage

I had a miscarriage when I was 8 weeks pregnant this would've been my 2nd child. I lost my baby on thr 18th so over a week ago now and I'm still getting positive pregnancy test although on the day I had a negative after My miscarriage. I'm just so confused as I'm not sure if I'm pregnant again or weather it is still...

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Lost a hope that never existed

My period was a week late which was quite unusual, my period circle is normally 25-28 days. I thought i was pregnant. Told my husband very excited. Was going to get a test yesterday, period came right before we left our house. I cried in front of my husband and daughter, i felt so silly, those happy thoughts were pl...

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Miscarriage

Was so excited when I found out I'm pregnant acouple of weeks back. Informed maternity but my midwife never got back to me. Yesterday started seeing blood when I went to pee called the maternity they said I should stay home and keep monitoring the blood flow.. after afew minutes went back to pee only for me to see h...

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TW miscarriage & fake pregnancy

My friend keeps faking pregnancyā€™s?? Like 6 in the last 2-3 years? I just donā€™t understand why. Sheā€™s sent me ultrasounds that I later find out theyā€™re fake (they popped up in reverse image search and the others were printed on photo paper.) She says things that donā€™t make sense like she got an emergency appointment...

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Early Miscarriage ?

Tested positive on Thursday with a clear blue digital as well as x2 easy@home tests. Iā€™m now bleeding, much like a period and Iā€™m devastated. I think I was around 4 weeks going by my date of conception. I hadnā€™t told my GP (I planned on phoning on Monday) i would just like some advice on what to do, do I just let it...

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Risk of miscarriage after 9 weeks?

Does anyone know the risk of having a miscarriage after 9 weeks? I had a scan at 9+2 and saw a healthy baby. I had a mmc with my first pregnancy so Iā€™m really worried

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Sex after mc

So sadly experienced a miscarriage 10 days agoā€¦ Iā€™ve stopped bleeding for the last 5 days. And lost the pregnancy at 6 weeks. Is it okay to have sex now? Online it says anywhere from 2-3 weeks after or once the bleeding has stopped. This isnā€™t for TTC this is for general. X

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Rh factor

Hi ladies. Anyone out there have rh- and a positive husband? My first born is positive. I found this out in previous pregnancies and have always gotten the RHOgam shot. I recently had a miscarriage in August around 6 weeks. Iā€™ve been anxious because I did not get the shot. We had no idea that was what was happening ...

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Pregnant after 2 miscarriages naturally?

I had a saugther in 2022. This year I had a miscarriage in April and one in September. I spoke with my hospital who will not do amy testing until I habe 3 losses. I spoke with my GP who has checked the basics of full blood cound, sugar levels and tyroid. I feel left alone by the system and my brain only sees that I ...

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Advice and support

So today I found out Iā€™m pregnant again, I was pregnant this time last year as well but the day of my first doctorā€™s appointment we found out there was no heartbeat and I was miscarrying. I had already lost the embryo but the gestational sac was still growing, this is called a blight pregnancy. They gave me the opti...

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What do you guys think

I been having this all day but not heavy bleeding. Am I having miscarriage? Please let me know

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Pregnancy with IUD

Hello everyone :) I got pregnant while I had the IUD in. I tried to get it removed, but the doctor couldnā€™t get the attached strings. I was reading that if it stays in, you're more likely to have a miscarriage, or lose the pregnancy. Is here anyone with similar experiences or cases who could give me advice? Iā€˜m...

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Miscarriage pain relief help

Iā€™ve been bleeding since last Saturday and only about an hour ago the pain has started. Whatā€™s everyoneā€™s recommendations for pain please it seems unbearable. And how much bleeding would you say is the ā€˜normalā€™ amount because I feel like itā€™s just pouring out.

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Missed Miscarriage

The physical side of my miscarriage finally ended yesterday. Today I wrote it all down and now just need to put it out into the world. https://medium.com/@stephanieanne_54526/missed-miscarriage-46f1e49ed850

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Anything?

Does anyone see anything? I had an early miscarriage a months ago, haven't had a period back yet but ttc again. My levels went back down to 0 after my loss. More photos In comments

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Trying again

Has anyone gotten pregnant after their miscarriage but before their first period. I had surgical management on the 17th and told to wait for at least one period. I have PCOS so could be waiting for that one period for months but Iā€™m desperate to try again.

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Has anyone got pregnant

Has anyone got pregnant with Endometriosis i recently had miscarriage i go to the doctor in the morning

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Possible miscarriage

So I think I am having a miscarriage. I went to the walk in on Friday with cramping and brown spotting. They said they couldnā€™t do anything apart from book me in for a scan on Tuesday. Since then the cramps have gotten quite a bit worse and the spotting has become red blood with small clots. Does this sound like one...

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